Let's talk to Jen. Hey Jen, how are you? Hi there. Hi, things. What's going on? Thanks for calling.

Of course. Well, first of all, I just want to say I'm obsessed with the shift and I'm a new follower and I just really appreciate your advice.

Thank you. Thank you so much. That's, well, welcome. Welcome, welcome. What is going on in your life?

Thank you. Yeah. So I'm actually calling on behalf of my little sister, Kate. Okay.

She's been in a relationship kind of on and off since her sophomore year of high school.

Okay. She's now a senior in college and she left for her freshman year of college still,

seriously dating this guy.

And then about halfway through their sophomore year of college, they broke up.

And then since then, they've kind of been doing zip coding together when they're together

in the same place.

And it's now, like, their senior year, and she's asking me, like, at this point, like,

should we know if we're each other's person and just fully commit to each other this year?

Or like, should my last year be all about fun and, like, be able to go to formal as

other guys and do all that stuff? So I'm just curious your thoughts. And like at this point

in like a seven, six year year relationship where should they be at

and so it's her senior year of college right and it's long distance like across the country

situation um okay god it is a long time but it's also like a long time when you're very young.

And look, some people do meet their person in high school, but I, you know me, I believe in kind of living.

I mean, you know, it's up to her. Like it's only a decision that she can make for herself.

And, you know, should you know or not, I don't think you

should because I think she's just so young. So like even though she's been with this person for six

or seven years, I think it's hard to tell when you're so young. I mean, my senior year of college,

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