It goes the other way around like I wouldn't want like my mom showing me a picture of the guy she's dating in underwear. Oh here dude, Trevor, what do you think?

Yeah, I'm willing to listen to whatever you want to share with me.

And I have always been that... But are you willing to listen to somebody not being

willing to listen to that? Yeah, maybe, but you know, here's the thing.

When my grandmother was alive, my granddad died and she got remarried

to somebody that was questionable at best.

And the whole family, being respectful,

didn't want to say anything,

like she was in her 70s and this is her decision and just happy she found love and I'm the only one in the family that's just like no no grandma who is this niggi

like like what's going on and the family loved it they because I'm saying the thing that you're not supposed to say I like

I love when I do they love when I do it for them I'm doing it for me now

You're listening to what now? The podcast where I chat to interesting people about the conversations taking over our world. This week

we're talking to my longtime friend and fellow stand-up comedian Gerard Carmichael.

In 2022, Gerard shocked the world with the revelation that his name was in fact

Rathaniel. He also came out as gay on the same stage on that same night.

That performance won him and Emmy.

And now he's back.

Gerard just released a series called The Gerard Carmichael Reality Show.

It's exactly what it sounds like.

Cameras follow

Gerard around through some of the most intimate moments of his life. He

starts off confessing feelings of attraction to his good friend who you may know

...