Welcome that. Welcome back to Hot Takes and Deep Dives and today I am reuniting with my old

friends. You know them from their podcast formerly known as Dumb Cave Politics, now Just Dumb Gay Podcast,

on the People's Couch, Hi Julie Goldman and self-described lesbian lurker, Brandy Howard.

That's right.

The lurking never stop.

Do you remember that that you used to refer to yourself?

At least back in the auto straddle days you would describe yourself as a lesbian lurker.

Yeah, we stopped hanging out with lesbians pretty much all together probably because of Julie.

Yeah, I don't I don't really have any lesbian friends.

And anymore anymore.

Yeah, this is gonna sound terrible.

I couldn't stand it.

It was just like,

he came like a thing of like when guys hang out just like I don't want to talk about girls I don't want to do a thing about sex I don't want to it just became like you're all like predators and makes me feel gross I don't

feel comfortable I don't want to the and it's are they're too sensitive or they're

too sensitive or it's like that's not funny I'm offended blah blah blah blah

and I just didn't fit in anywhere well and I just felt like you know what

Are you referring to this isn't like big gay sketch show days?

Uh no more recent history?

Well, yeah, no, it was throughout, I would say my time, yeah,

as a human lesbian, I would say that I have not had luck with fitting in with other

lesbians and that there's a lot in comedy there's a lot of lesbians in stand-up yeah

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