Lightning Round Rantings
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 3 October 2022
⏱️ 102 minutes
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Summary
00:00 Lightning Round Rantings
00:36 Tragedy & empathy
03:11 Biggest lesson in our careers
06:52 Relational trauma & anger
20:38 Therapist secretly testing clients
22:13 House of the Dragon
23:34 Self-compassion
27:43 C-PTSD
30:42 Influential albums for us
36:01 Preoccupied attachment
49:12 Having two therapists at once
59:13 Reddit & Ethics
1:06:02 White therapists & POC clients
1:08:41 Dating after dysfunction
1:13:14 Accepting a change of identity
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| 0:00.0 | All right, Bob. So a few weeks ago, I sent out a survey to submit questions to us to answer in the podcast |
| 0:07.3 | about 140 people gave us questions. Two times ago, we got to seven of the questions, I think. |
| 0:16.2 | And then one time ago, I think we got to one of them. But this time, I'm going to hold |
| 0:22.1 | us to lightning round because I have a timer one minute. So we're going to hold our responses |
| 0:27.8 | that because we got a lot of questions to get to. Let's get to it. What do you say, Bob? |
| 0:31.2 | I say, these are famous last words. Yeah. So ballas from hungry, good old ballas from hungry says, |
| 0:37.6 | do your Bob, I relate to all the podcasters, but I relate to you podcasters to me in the cohosts, |
| 0:44.0 | but I and me, but I relate to you most because of the way you speak to your wife in a vulnerable way. |
| 0:50.5 | I meaning that you talk about how you talk up to your I do that to I do that to my friends all the |
| 0:56.9 | time. Do you think tragedy shapes you? So ballas is saying, I'm like you, Bob, in that I speak |
| 1:04.8 | very vulnerable. So ballas is to be cute. It's cool. It's what we're saying. Yeah. And then ballas says, |
| 1:11.0 | do you think tragedy shapes you to be more empathetic, meaning tragedy? And once I'm asking this |
| 1:17.0 | because I'm trying to figure out for myself that if I hadn't experienced relational traumas, |
| 1:22.0 | all those positive qualities about myself would be gone. What do you say, Bob? Without question. |
| 1:27.1 | Yeah, absolutely. There's a full minute to fill, Bob. This is lightning. Oh, we get the whole minute. |
| 1:32.8 | I thought the minute part of it, I had to devote some of the minutes to that actual question. |
| 1:36.0 | Okay, got it. Question free space. Yeah, without a doubt. And I've had the same thought, would I be |
| 1:41.9 | who I am and the what I consider my some of my good qualities, what I would have him if I hadn't |
| 1:51.0 | gone through what I did? I don't think I would have him, but you know, it can't be known, but I don't |
| 1:56.0 | think I would. And so to that extent, I'm grateful because I like me. I like these parts of me. |
| 2:04.5 | And I want to have them, but I don't, I don't actually think I would. Yeah, but experience shapes |
| 2:10.1 | everybody. So it's not really, you know, how am I doing? 48 seconds now? 12 to go. Or you said 12 |
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