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The Art of Charm

Likable Badass (Respect & Influence In The Office) | Alison Fragale

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Business, Health & Fitness, Education

4.711K Ratings

🗓️ 18 November 2024

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Summary

In today's episode, we cover the art of negotiation, power dynamics, and effective leadership with Dr. Alison Fragale, a leading authority in organizational behavior. As a distinguished professor at the Kenan-Flagler Business School at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, Alison has dedicated her career to understanding how individuals acquire and exercise power and status within organizations. She is the author of the insightful new book, "Likeable Badass: How Women Get the Success They Deserve," combining her rich academic background with real-world applications, Alison empowers women to assert themselves authentically and achieve their career goals.  Join us for an insightful conversation with Dr. Alison Fragale as she unveils the hidden dynamics of power and status that shape our careers and personal lives. Discover how to balance assertiveness with likability, gain respect without compromising your true self, and build authentic status—even if you're new to an organization or battling imposter syndrome. Alison offers actionable strategies to inspire others to advocate on your behalf, navigate conversations that elevate your influence, and become a more impactful leader in your career and beyond. What to Listen For Introduction – 00:00:00 What inspired Alison Fragale to develop an interest in organizational psychology? Why understanding the difference between power and status is crucial for building a fulfilling career and personal life. How do you acquire status and then leverage it to gain power? The Catch 22 of Acquiring Power – 00:07:55 What do most people get wrong about what it takes to gain power in your professional and personal life? Can you be true to yourself if you are trying to acquire status and power? The Secret to Balancing Assertiveness with Likability – 00:20:48 What is the key to being respected? How can you be assertive without making people dislike you? What strategy can you use to build your status authentically? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

You know what that is.

0:04.0

An ice cold beer.

0:07.0

What's different?

0:09.0

It's Budweiser, a perfect beer for party season.

0:14.0

Best enjoyed with your best buds.

0:20.0

Cheers to that. Budweiser, like no way. best enjoyed with your best butts.

0:22.3

Cheers to that.

0:25.3

Budweiser, like no other.

0:26.8

Please drink responsibly.

0:28.5

For the facts, visit drinkaware.com.com.

0:32.4

Status exists only in your head.

0:34.3

My status exists only in your head.

0:36.5

It's your judgment of how much you respect me.

0:37.6

And so status is a completely voluntary process where we only get as much as other people think that we should have.

0:42.3

And so it can feel harder for us to influence that because it exists only in people's minds.

0:48.1

It's not something we can actually grab on and hold on and sit on and steal.

1:04.4

Welcome to the Art of Charm podcast, where we break down the science of powerful communication and winning mindset, so you have the cheat code to succeed with people.

1:07.9

Every episode is jam-packed with actionable steps to unlock the hidden superpowers inside

1:12.9

of you.

1:13.9

Level up with us each week by listening to interviews with the best in business, psychology,

1:17.8

and relationships.

1:19.3

We distill thousands of hours of research in the most effective tools and the latest science

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