Love Bombing (Deep Dive) - and Big Ed (2021 Rerun)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 5 March 2023
⏱️ 13 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hey deserving listeners, today's episode is just for patrons of the podcast on patreon.com, |
| 0:06.2 | but I have a little intro first. This is going to be a deep dive on love bombing. There is a lot |
| 0:12.9 | of talk about love bombing on the internet and among clients and I thought I would do a deep dive |
| 0:19.1 | on it. So I could learn more about it and also explain it to all y'all out there. Also at the end |
| 0:25.5 | of this episode, I'm going to analyze Big Ed from 90 Day Fiancé. Is he a narcissist? Is he |
| 0:32.4 | love bombing Liz? Did he love bomb Rose? If you're into that show, you might be interested in that |
| 0:37.7 | at the end of this episode. But first let's go into the definition of love bombing. There are two main |
| 0:44.2 | types of love bombing, which are really very different from each other, even though most people |
| 0:49.7 | will conflate the two on the internet anyway. The first type is the type that is often discussed |
| 0:55.2 | on the internet, but it's a rare type. And these are my definitions based on my experiences in the |
| 1:01.2 | literature. So love bombing is a conscious attempt to manipulate and control a person using grand |
| 1:08.8 | demonstrations of affection. So this is a conscious attempt, meaning the person knows they are love |
| 1:16.0 | bombing and are doing it on purpose to manipulate and control someone by using very big demonstrations |
| 1:24.3 | of affection and attention. So essentially the person is giving all sorts of love and attention, |
| 1:30.7 | particularly at the beginning of a relationship, to manipulate and control someone. And again, |
| 1:35.4 | this is done on purpose. The person, the love bomber knows they are love bombing. These people |
| 1:41.4 | are sometimes psychopathic or sadistic abusers. And like I said, this is what is usually being |
| 1:48.2 | discussed on the internet, even though this is a very rare type of love bombing in my experience. |
| 1:54.8 | The second main type of love bombing is a subconscious effort to gain attachment security |
| 2:01.2 | through hasty and extreme affection, often with those suffering from narcissistic personality |
| 2:07.0 | disorder, borderline personality disorder, or histrionic personality disorder. Cluster B essentially, |
| 2:12.9 | the rest of the cluster B besides psychopaths. So again, to review this, this is a subconscious |
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