In 1995, Carolyn Kiloby-A-Van Cooper Washington got into a heated argument with her husband.

She then went to a local bar alone.

No one has seen or heard from her since.

But some saliva from an envelope and a speck of blood on a wristwatch helped solve the

mystery of her disappearance.

In 1990, Carolyn and Dan Kiloby were married each for the second time.

Dan managed a furniture store.

Carolyn was a medical technician employed by the U.S. military.

Carolyn and Dan each had a daughter from their previous marriages, and they moved into

this home in Vancouver, Washington.

My mom was basically the backbone of my whole family.

I mean, she was very strong-willed and she held everybody together.

She was the problem solver, she was the supporters, she was the happiness, the joy, she was

just like everything you could ask for.

From Saturday night, November 11, 1995, Carolyn and Dan got into an argument.

She had been in a fight with her husband because her husband had decided instead of doing

something with her that night that she'd counted on, they were going to go out.

He was going to go out with his brother and have some food and drink.

And she objected significantly to that.

And I don't know whether she stomped out of the house and drove over there or how that

transpired, but she ended up at Omar's and she was doing some serious drinking there.

A waitress said Carolyn was dancing, but was there alone and was obviously intoxicated.

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