Do you not know that most people are trying to build something that they never saw?

Absolutely.

We are willing to fight the person we love to become what we had in mind

even though we don't even know what we're doing.

And I'm only asking for one thing, both from men and women,

is to give up on the possibility that everything you think is right.

Because the moment you humble yourself to the point that I could be wrong, you open up to correct the mistakes that were in your

models.

Anytime you are from the outside and you come into something, don't come in talking. Come in listening. You are attracted to your opposite and if you're

not careful you spend the rest of the marriage trying to turn them into you.

I'm an extra bird, I want no!

I married her because I secretly wanted her to save me from me.

I call her out of her conference zone. I call her out because secretly up under that introvert is a wild woman.

I feel it was in there. If you are after a goal you need a model so you will place the pieces not according to how you feel but according to how they fit until you

look like the model. So my wife has a model of marriage that she built without me that's built on her set of experiences good and bad.

Let me say it doesn't mean that you emulate your parents.

Sometimes you are bent on not having It doesn't mean that you emulate your parents.

Sometimes you are bent on not having what they had.

But there's still a model that affects you.

And I had a model and we didn't necessarily meet about models.

We met about us.

We met about us. I thought she was cool.

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