My Ex Uploaded Footage of Me on Pornhub Without My Consent

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4.7 • 762 Ratings

🗓️ 1 March 2023

⏱️ 42 minutes

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0:00.0	Fight the new drug has been fighting for love for 14 years.
0:04.0	What started in 2009 as a group of college friends with a shared passion to positively impact the world has grown into a global movement for love.
0:13.0	We are proud to say that millions of people are now recognizing pornography for what it is and rejecting its influence in their lives. But with over 8 billion
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1:00.9	Today's episode is with Victoria.
1:06.6	Victoria is a paralegal, a mother, and a survivor of image-based sexual abuse.
1:27.0	During this episode, Victoria discussed how she discovered non-consensual footage of her which had been uploaded online, the grooming that took place during the time this footage had been taken without her knowledge, her arduous journey to get that footage removed, and what she's doing now to advocate for herself and other victims who have found themselves in similar situations. With that, let's jump into
1:29.6	this episode of Consider before consuming. First things first, I just want to say thank you for
1:39.1	joining us on the podcast today. Thank you for having me. Absolutely. We feel honored that you're here today.
1:47.2	And for the guests that aren't as familiar with who you are, I think we should give you
1:52.8	the opportunity to introduce yourself. Can you do that and just kind of talk about what your
1:58.1	day to day looks like nowadays? Yeah, I'm a paralegal and I live in Tennessee.
2:04.2	I'm a mother. I'm a survivor of image-based sexual abuse, unfortunately. Yeah, so I mean,
2:10.7	sitting here now, I'm sweating, I'm shaking, I'm nervous, but you know, at the same time, it's important to me. So I do want to, I do want to share my story. I do want to help other people if I can.
2:24.3	You mentioned the image-based abuse that you experienced. Can you speak to that a little bit more and explain when was the first time that you found out that you had been victimized?
2:38.4	Yeah, sure. So I was actually married most of my adult life. And around 2016, we got a divorce and I started online dating. That's where all of this really started.
2:52.5	I met a man online named Brandon.
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