Narcissistic Abuse Caused My Rheumatoid Arthritis

Trauma & Narcissism Redefined

Caroline Strawson

Narcissisticabuse, Health & Fitness, Narcissist, Self-improvement, Education, Recovery, Mental Health, Trauma

4.8 • 701 Ratings

🗓️ 8 April 2025

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

Today marks the launch of our rebranded podcast, No Visible Bruises sharing real survivor stories of narcissistic abuse, domestic abuse and coercive control, and the long-lasting physiological impact of trauma not just the psychological.

In our very first episode, we sit down with Kirstie Haysman, who bravely shares her experience of narcissistic abuse and how it intertwines with her diagnosis of rheumatoid arthritis.

This conversation is one not to miss.

We explore: • How chronic conditions like arthritis, fibromyalgia, IBS and others can be linked to the trauma of relational abuse • What happens in the body when we are exposed to long-term stress and emotional abuse • How healing is possible when we understand the connection between the nervous system and our physical health • The importance of working with the body, not against it

If you’ve ever wondered whether your chronic symptoms could be connected to your past and present experiences of narcissistic abuse, domestic abuse & coercive control… If you’ve ever felt unseen in your pain… If you’ve ever questioned the invisible impact of emotional abuse…

This episode is for you.

Listen now, share with someone who needs it, and join us in shining a light on what’s been hidden for far too long.

Do not suffer alone and come and join my private FREE Facebook group - No Visible Bruises- Narcissistic Abuse, Domestic Abuse & Coercive Control https://www.facebook.com/groups/novisiblebruises. Disclaimer: The views and opinions shared in this podcast are those of the individuals involved and are intended for informational and educational purposes only. They do not substitute professional or medical advice. If you’ve been affected by anything discussed in today’s episode, please consider reaching out to a qualified healthcare provider or mental health professional for support. You’re not alone, and help is always available.

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0:00.0	Welcome to No Visible Bruises, the podcast that shares real-life survivor stories of narcissistic abuse, domestic abuse and coercive control from a physiology first and nervous system perspective, because you can't think your way out of this. You need to feel to heal. I'm Caroline Strawson, a survivor myself and now a trauma expert and educator.
0:24.5	I am here to create change and understanding of the unseen abuse that we are not taught about
0:30.4	in schools and to heal from the inside out at a nervous system level. Let's break the silence
0:36.8	and change the narrative because we heal together.
0:46.8	In today's episode, I'm talking to Kirsty Haysman. And if you are somebody who is wondering why
0:53.3	you are continually suffering with chronic illnesses,
0:56.8	such as rheumatoid arthritis, digestive issues, or even skin conditions, today's episode is for you
1:04.2	because narcissistic abuse, domestic abuse and coercive control could just be the reason why. So a massive welcome. I am really,
1:15.5	really excited today because it's our very first episode on survival stories talking about
1:22.1	stories around narcissistic abuse, domestic abuse and coercive control. And I have got the best guest as our very
1:29.9	first one because I wanted to make it really relatable to so many people. And I've got the
1:35.8	amazing Kirsty Haysman here whose story is, I mean, it gives me goosebumps when I read about your
1:41.9	story. I've known you for a while, Kirsty. And I'm just honoured that you are here for our very, very first survivor story.
1:48.8	And I know it can feel really nerve-wracking talking about this because we know there are
1:52.8	legalities around things and all stuff like that too.
1:56.4	So we'll be sharing things we can, some of the things we can't.
2:00.3	But throughout this session, Kirsty, this is a session for you.
2:04.0	You know, I'm here to help and support you in our inaugural first episode.
2:09.6	But a massive welcome to you.
2:11.6	Thank you for having me and inviting me.
2:13.6	I feel very honored to be here.
2:15.1	Well, I'm really honoured.
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