I think it's easy to look at our spouse and think, I'm doing all the work.

I'm the one that's putting all the energy into our relationship.

And so when Dave was really honest with me and saying it feels like every single thing I do is critique by you, I can do nothing right.

That was really sobering to me.

And I could have said, well, it's because

you don't do anything right. But because of my relationship with God, and I'm not saying I'm

perfect, but there is a point of submission to the father of saying, Lord, is that true?

Welcome to Family Life today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most.

I'm Dave Wilson.

And I'm Ann Wilson. And you can find us at FamilyLife Today.com.

This is Family Life Today.

Okay. life today. Okay, so it's going to be an interesting day.

This is a bad, it's the dumbest idea ever.

I'm glad it's not my idea and it's not your idea.

I know.

We're like walking into a trap. Who would say yes to this?

It might be a trap. This could be a trap. This idea came from the production room. Our audio engineer,

Bruce Goff, and our producer, Jim Mitchell. Oh, you're naming names. Well, I want the guilty to be known.

Yeah, so honestly.

They had this great idea, which we're like, is it a great idea?

You said it was the dumbest idea ever.

I'm going to repeat that.

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