Onlyfans is Ruining Men's Lives, Value and Intimate Relationships
Knowledge For Men
Andrew Ferebee
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🗓️ 25 September 2023
⏱️ 47 minutes
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Summary
In part II of this episode series (originally on youtube), Andrew discusses How OnlyFans Hijacked the Souls of Men and Women in a Few Years.
1. A Destructive Addiction: OnlyFans is not just a platform for sexual content; it is a powerful, addictive force that can consume and alter the behavior of even the most disciplined individuals, impacting their real-life relationships and personal growth.
2. Appealing to the "Average" Man: Contrary to popular belief, the majority of OnlyFans users are not social outcasts or desperate individuals. Successful, well-adjusted men with families and careers are also being drawn to the platform, revealing a deeper societal issue at play.
3. The Perfect Storm: The accessibility, affordability, and defensibility of OnlyFans create a potent combination that makes it an attractive escape for men dealing with personal challenges, providing an artificial and temporary fulfillment of their needs for connection and intimacy.
4. Impact on Sexual Marketplace Value: OnlyFans usage can stunt personal growth and decrease an individual's sexual value in the marketplace, leading to a cycle of dependency and avoidance of addressing underlying issues in their lives and relationships.
5. A Slow and Unconscious Decline: The insidious nature of OnlyFans lies in its gradual and often unnoticed impact on users, making it an elusive and dangerous influence on the lives of an entire generation of men.
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| 0:00.0 | What's up guys? In this video, we're going to be talking about the dangerous downward spiral. |
| 0:05.0 | How OnlyFans drains men's sexual marketplace value and slowly thwarts their dreams of a fulfilling life. |
| 0:12.0 | You see, while I was conducting research for this video series, I experienced something that I didn't expect. |
| 0:17.0 | It all started very innocently enough. I had dated or was dating several women who were only fans models and my curiosity led me to create an anonymous account to see what they were publishing if they were telling me the truth and how far they were willing to go to increase their earnings. |
| 0:34.6 | But what I never anticipated was how I would fall victim to the pool of the platform myself. |
| 0:40.3 | Despite being intimate with these women in real life, I found myself constantly checking in on their profiles, |
| 0:46.3 | even while I was eating meals, in traffic, or even waiting to pick them up for a date. |
| 0:51.3 | It became a rush, like a drug that I couldn't resist to see their |
| 0:54.6 | next post. Slowly, I became more interested in the virtual version of her on OnlyFans, |
| 1:00.9 | even though I had full access to the real version of her in person. But like any drug, |
| 1:06.8 | the high started to wear off, and I became more and more desensitized to their content. |
| 1:11.3 | I found myself exploring beyond the models I knew personally for more. |
| 1:15.1 | And before long, only fans had a vice grip on my attention and energy. |
| 1:19.7 | Despite my best efforts to exert discipline and willpower, the platform always seemed to win. |
| 1:28.1 | Eventually, I had to delete the app entirely, but the bitter taste of the experience |
| 1:32.3 | lingered. |
| 1:33.3 | As someone who has spent a decade in the personal development field and has a purpose-filled |
| 1:37.9 | and exciting life, it was alarming to realize that only fans had the power to capture even |
| 1:42.8 | my attention and alter my behavior. |
| 1:45.0 | It's a sobering thought that OnlyFans has the potential to alter the course of an entire generation of men, |
| 1:54.0 | especially for those who are blind to what's happening. |
| 2:02.6 | Behind the mask, exploring the reality of men who join OnlyFans. |
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