Do you think men can have friends that are girls platonically?

It's hard, if not impossible.

I think I saw something on YouTube a while ago where a woman was saying, oh, no, no, these

men in my life, they don't want me at all.

They're just my platonic friends.

They care about me as a person.

And the response was like, okay, well, then as a test, text these guys, been like,

hey, I really like you. Do you want to have

sex? And see how they respond. Why do men cheat? Typically, they cheat when they can.

That's not comforting either. Most men have little to know sexual optionality. So a lot of the

morality that I sometimes hear about men

about all of these like famous celebrities or the powerful politicians who cheat. It's like these are

coming from men who have never been tempted by attractive, available, beautiful women. They've made

a virtue out of their necessity. It's like no women are tempting them for

affairs. Loyalty that isn't tested, isn't loyalty. I feel like sometimes I try and get everything

from everyone as if I'll never speak to them again. Like I have to ask every single question I can

possibly think up to make sure I check all the boxes. But I'd really like to try and make this

come from like the man's perspective

because I'm just curious. As a girl, I love learning about this stuff. And of course,

feel free to, you know, whatever kind of information about the man or the woman's perspective,

because I'd love to talk about roles and things like that in relationships. But a lot of

this conversation is going to come from the perspective of like, what does a man need here? Why does a

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