Outright Defiance/Refusal: My Best Podcast of 2024

Calm Parenting Podcast

Kirk Martin

Education, Social Sciences, Science, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.8 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 9 June 2024

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Outright Defiance/Refusal: My Best Podcast of 2024 Do you have a child who ever acts outright defiant or refuses to do what you ask? Who then has attitude? How do you handle this without being authoritarian (fear, escalating) or being too sweet (getting walked all over and creating an entitled child)? Kirk shows you how to teach your child while staying connected through defiance, anger, and hostile words. This may be the best and most foundational podcast of 2024. Take the extra time and listen. Our Summer Sale continues this week. Visit https://celebratecalm.com/products to purchase the Get Everything Package at the lowest prices of the year. The Calm Parenting Podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Take a moment. Visit https://BetterHelp.comcom/CALM today to get 10% off your first month. Visit https://drinkAG1.com/calm for a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase. AirDoctor comes with a 30-day money back guarantee so if you don’t love it, just send it back for a refund, minus shipping! Head to https://airdoctorpro.com/ and use promo code CALM and you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Today my listeners receive 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to https://AquaTru.com and enter code “CALM “ at checkout. Go to https://CrunchLabs.com/calm to sign your kids up for Camp CrunchLabs today! Use https://CrunchLabs.com/calm to get 2 boxes FREE, which is a $60 value. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.0	So when our strong-willed son Casey was about 10, I walked into his room one Friday
0:36.0	evening and I said, hey Case, remember, you need to rake the leaves tonight.
0:40.1	And his response was, of course, father, I wasn't having a good time texting my friends or playing
0:45.6	video games. I was hoping you give me additional chores so I could learn the value of hard
0:50.4	work and responsibility, sir. Yeah, that's not what he said.
0:53.8	Some of you are lucky you may have a more compliant child
0:56.7	or you have perfect family members that have those kids
1:00.4	that just comply right away of like, okay, right away, or maybe they'll push the limits and say,
1:06.5	you know what, I know you wanted me to do it at 6 o'clock?
1:08.8	Could I do it 6 o'clock?
1:10.0	But the Strongwell Child will often come back at you and so here was our son's response
1:16.2	He didn't even look up at me. He just said I don't have to. Oh What are you going to do when your child is just outright defiant to you,
1:28.0	refuses to do what you ask? Look, some of you have tried this. We can go all authoritarian, how I was raised, but you've done that already.
1:39.0	And people have judged you. You just need to be tougher with that kid.
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