“People Pleasing is Destroying Your Life!” - Anita Moorjani on Her Top Lessons Learned from Her Near-Death Experience

Dhru Purohit Show

Dhru Purohit

Medicine, Health & Fitness, Alternative Health

4.7 • 3.4K Ratings

🗓️ 10 July 2024

⏱️ 135 minutes

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This episode is brought to you by Birch Living, Bioptimizers, and Bon Charge. Is a life of fear and people-pleasing holding you back from truly living? Today’s guest shares how a lifetime of negative self-talk, people-pleasing, and dimming her light out of fear of being seen led her to neglect her body and its needs, ultimately resulting in a cancer diagnosis. Today, on The Dhru Purohit Show, Dhru sits down with author and spiritual speaker Anita Moorjani to discuss Anita’s cancer diagnosis and the spiritual and emotional themes she believes led to her diagnosis and near-death experience. Anita shares how she carried a lifetime of fear, unworthiness, and people-pleasing tendencies that led to significant energy depletion. She also discusses the life lessons and mindset changes she learned while in a coma and how she is navigating her life after nearly dying. Anita Moorjani is a renowned author and spiritual speaker known for her transformative journey beyond the brink of death. Anita battled end-stage cancer before experiencing a remarkable near-death experience (NDE) that shifted her perspective on life. Her bestselling memoir, “Dying to Be Me,” chronicles her profound journey and miraculous healing. Its popularity established her as the premier NDE expert. Her teachings empower others to embody their highest version and live vibrant, authentic lives. In this episode, Dhru and Anita Moorjani dive into (audio version / Apple Subscriber version): The emotional and spiritual themes that Anita believes led to her cancer diagnosis (00:00:43 / 00:00:43) Fear and people-pleasing as major energy depleters (7:50 / 4:20) Anita’s childhood experiences and the feelings of unworthiness (12:30 / 9:00) A diagnosis of cancer after a lifetime of neglecting herself (29:31 / 24:17) Why a death timeline can be harmful to a mindset (40:14 / 34:50) What Anita experienced during her coma and the unconditional love (48:12 / 42:58) Changing your mindset from victimhood to empowerment (57:40 / 52:26) Lessons from the Beyond (1:08:14 / 1:03:00) Dhru’s personal story on the transition of a loved one (1:17:14 / 1:11:50) The message spurred Anita’s healing (1:28:14 / 1:22:50) Navigating life after almost dying (1:36:54 / 1:31:40) How to die before you truly die (1:53:14 / 1:47:50) Lose the fear of death to live fully (1:59:39 / 1:54:25) Also mentioned in this episode: Anita’s Book Dying to Be Me: My Journey from Cancer to Near Death to True Healing For more on Anita, follow her on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, and her website. To get 25% off your Birch Living mattress plus two free eco-rest pillows, head over to birchliving.com/dhru today. Upgrade your digestion with enzymes! Go to bioptimizers.com/dhru now and enter promo code DHRU10 to get 10% off any order and free gifts for a limited time. Right now, BON CHARGE is offering my community 15% off; just go to boncharge.com/DHRU and use coupon code DHRU to save 15%. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Anita, you are a cancer survivor, and in 2006, while in a coma, of all things, you experienced
0:12.3	a profound near-death experience that radically changed how you look at life,
0:19.7	death, and what's beyond. Now before we go deep and we will be going deep in today's
0:25.9	interview into your story and how at one point in time you were given three months
0:31.1	prognosis left to live I'd actually like you to share with our audience
0:37.6	a little bit about some of the emotional and spiritual themes that you believe contributed to your diagnoses.
0:49.2	And these themes are often themes that people learn way too late in life.
0:56.1	I'll turn it over to you.
0:58.0	I love that question.
1:00.1	I love that question because I know that my tendency to be a people-pleaser because a lot of it because of my environment and my upbringing my tendency to always feel that I wasn't good enough
1:18.0	and to be a doormat led to me getting cancer and if it's one message that I would want every single person on the planet to know it's that low self-esteem, self-hatred, self-loathing, a lack of value for yourself can lead to illness and not just any illness but it can lead to detrimental illnesses
1:48.8	that can take your life and that's what happened to me and that that's why I made it my mission to share my story.
1:55.9	People don't realize it. I teach people how to love themselves because that is so important. My tagline is love yourself like your life depends on it because it does.
2:08.0	And people still question me and they say, isn't it selfish to love yourself? And I think you have no idea that if you don't love yourself it can actually lead to you becoming so depleted that you can get so
2:24.3	can get so sick that you can actually die like I did.
2:28.0	I literally, you know, and it wasn't even the cancer that was the wake-up call for me. It was death and I don't want people to
2:36.6	get to that stage when it's too late before realizing that they could have done things differently.
2:41.6	Mm-mm well that's why you're here is to share your message, which is a big part of your purpose.
2:47.6	And one of the messages that you learned when you were in the beyond, which we're talking about in a second.
2:54.0	But let's pull on those themes a little bit further.
2:57.0	You know, any time we talk about cancer,
3:00.0	as you've been talking about your story,
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