Quickie w/ Julie: My Biggest Fear – Even In A Happy, Healthy Relationship

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

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🗓️ 24 May 2024

⏱️ 10 minutes

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We're dropping another quickie as Julie reflects on her biggest fear that was triggered by last week's episode 'Are Long-Term Relationships For Everyone?' Find out why this apprehension still creeps in even in her current relationship and how she could relate to Ryan's ex from her experience in the past. If you've been in a situation where it felt like someone pulled the rug out from under you saying they couldn't be in a relationship anymore, then this episode is for you. Related Episodes: S18E12: Are Long-Term Relationships For Everyone? w/ Ryan Van Duzer Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Before we get into this episode, we're excited to announce our Meeting People
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0:40.0	Hey everyone, Julie here with a quickie. I felt compelled to share after the episode last week that we did our long-term
0:47.5	relationships for everyone with Brian Van Duser because I will admit my heart sank when we talked to him because it activated my biggest fear in relationship, something that I still fear even in a happy, healthy, secure relationship.
1:03.2	It's when someone is suddenly just not ready.
1:06.7	They were in it, and then they decide
1:08.9	that they just can't do it anymore.
1:10.5	And his story for anyone that missed it, he shared how he was going through a breakup, he had met someone that he was like convinced was the one, like the person that he was going to make it work with.
1:21.0	He could see building a life with her and having family etc etc.
1:25.2	And then a year into their relationship he just had this feeling that it wasn't right and that he didn't
1:30.6	want that anymore. And it is absolutely terrifying to me, I'll be honest,
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