Quickie w/ Julie: The Case for Underthinking (In Dating)

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 25 October 2024

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

What if there were benefits of underthinking in dating and relationships? Yup, you heard us right. Julie's sharing a low light from her trip to Italy and how the anxiety and overthinking started to creep in related to her relationship. And also how overthinking has caused issues in the past and why thinking a little less can actually be of greater service to us all. Don't worry, we're never advocating for not thinking dating and relationships through; but more about how we don't get in our own ways.

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0:54.6	datable that's a n i s a beauty dot com and don't forget to use the code d a t e a b l e b l e hello datables it is time for a quickie D-A-E-A-B-L-E. Hello, Dat-A-B-L-E-E-T-E-E-E-L-E. I just got back from Italy last week and definitely experiencing some jet lag. I have woken up at 4.30 a.m. every day except for today,
1:16.4	but have been completely slow moving. But I had to come record something that's been on my mind.
1:22.0	And I'll definitely share more about my trip on
1:24.4	upcoming episodes, but I did want to share maybe one low light of my trip, you
1:29.7	know the stuff that doesn't get on Instagram. This was actually the first longer trip that I did with my partner.
1:36.5	We've been to Hawaii and Mexico, but that was, you know, five days and this was 13, including travel. That's a lot of time to be with one person and even
1:46.4	though we live together he's at work I'm doing my thing and you know we really see each
1:51.3	other in the evenings and on weekends.
1:54.3	So inevitably something will happen on a trip and for us it was when we were in Chincaterra
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