We know this. The culture will tell you, hey, as long as you're not hurting anybody else, what's it matter? Just do what you want. Just as long as you're happy. If you want to sit and play video games, 18 hours a day, hey, if you're not hurting anybody. So if you're not given a bigger vision for who to be, it's very difficult to say no to that stuff.

Welcome to Family Life Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most.

I'm Ann Wilson.

And I'm Dave Wilson, and you can find us at FamilyLife Today.com.

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All right, so we got Brian Hanson back in the studio.

It's always a good day.

It's a great day when Brands with us.

Carolyn's sitting out, you know, listening to the whole thing.

She's waving at us. Carolyn is the best wife.

Isn't she the best?

Yep.

And we got married when I was 20.

She was 21.

And people are like, it'll never work.

So how many years now?

34.

So there.

The jury's still out.

It's been 34 really great years.

I can tell she really likes you.

Well, good.

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