Hi, we've got three stories from Curiosity.com to help you get smarter in just a few minutes.

I'm Cody Gough.

And I'm Ashley Hamer.

Today you learn about a Japanese concept you can use to find your life's purpose,

why flamingo beaks look weird, and how to figure out your attachment

style when it comes to relationships.

Let's satisfy some curiosity.

Ashley, what's your attachment style?

I'm secure, thank you very much.

That's great, your low anxiety and low avoidance yeah

yeah wow very cool why thank you if you're listening and you have no idea what we're

talking about that's okay you're about to do you like relationships? Do you get in relationships? Have you been in

relationships? Well, what's your attachment style? Today you learn what it is. In his book, Authentic Happiness, University of Pennsylvania psychologist Martin E.P. Seligman argues that there are two basic

dimensions to your attachment style. One is your level of attachment-related anxiety,

and the other is your level of attachment-related anxiety and the other is your level of attachment-related

avoidance. Anxiety is an umbrella term that covers fear of rejection, fear your partner will leave

you, and fear your partner is somehow faking their feelings for you.

The other dimension, avoidant people, are less likely to open up to other people emotionally and less willing to rely on their partners.

So that translates in a four basic attachment styles.

You either have low in both, high in both, or low in one of the other.

And like Ashley said, you're secure. That's great.

Yeah, secure people tend to have sturdy and meaningful intimate relationships.

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