Relationship Issues, Part 1: How to get your wife on board with your goals and vision

Sports Motivation Podcast

Niyi Sobo

Soccer, Football, Basketball, Crossfit, Mindset, Sports, Psychology, Dominate, Business

4.8 • 755 Ratings

🗓️ 17 October 2017

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Look at all of the most successful athletes, most of them struggle at some point in their careers with relationship issues. None of us are immune. How do you get your wife or partner on board with your goals? What do you do when they complain that you spend too much time at the gym or at work? How do you stay on track and manage your time while making them happy? It's not easy, and I'm certainly no Dr. Phil... but I am a husband, and I can share with you what I have learned to be the major keys in staying ambitious without sacrificing your relationships. Enjoy part 1 of this series, and click the link in my bio to listen.

Episode 200 Time Stamps:

(1:20) 4th quarter mentality

(2:56) Preface: I am not a relationship guru.

(4:15) How to get your partner on board with your goals.

(4:33) Do you feel “held-back”?

(6:10) Here’s a reality check for you.

(7:03) Take ownership of YOUR stuff

(8:16) “Those who don’t feel control, are the least happy.”

(9:07) Martin Seligman, "Learn Helplessness"

(9:42) What to expect on this mini-series | Problem -> Root Cause -> New Plan

(10:56) Today’s ROOT CAUSE | Ray Dalio's, "Principles"

(12:43) Your partner might feel like you put your work, before them…

(13:58) Do you have to prioritize things this way?

(15:59) Breakthrough: Focus on your partner’s FEELING.

(17:45) Following? Let’s design today’s PLAN

(18:47) 1: Learn your partner’s ‘love recipe’ | Gary Chapman’s “5 Love Languages”

(20:40) ASK. LISTEN.

(23:22) 2: Spend regular amounts of time with your partner.

(25:46) 3: Do whatever it takes to get your partner what he/she needs.

(28:58) Simon Senek’s, “Leaders Eat Last”

(29:40) Stay tuned for more relationship realities.

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Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/200

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Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!

Transcript

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0:00.0	If you try to get right, then you listen to my dad.
0:03.0	He's a beast.
0:05.0	And if you don't want to listen to him, okay, okay, you don't want to get successful.
0:11.0	If you ain't trying to dominate, man, they go listen to something else.
0:15.0	Welcome, athletes, top performers, and all those looking to gain that killer instinct, that edge you need
0:22.4	to dominate in any environment. This is the Sports Motivation podcast, and I'm your host,
0:28.1	Nees Showbo. I play ball and succeeded at the highest levels, and I'm now committed to showing
0:34.3	you how you can accomplish the ambitious goals and visions that you have.
0:39.3	This podcast is designed to teach you a high-level strategy, not just fluff and hype.
0:44.7	This will cut to the core if you let it. And by taking action on the practical and next-level
0:50.1	advice I share, you will see results. Expect that.
0:55.5	Expect to be more confident.
0:57.2	Expect to be more focused.
0:59.1	Expect to be more decisive.
1:01.1	And expect to be more fearless.
1:04.9	Expect to become the leader your vision needs you to become.
1:06.3	So listen up.
1:07.1	Take notes.
1:08.7	Let's get to it.
1:29.7	Welcome back to the Sports Motivation Podcast. It is your host, Nees Showbo. We are in the fourth quarter, 2017.
1:31.8	I hope everybody is grinding.
1:33.1	I hope you're finishing strong.
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