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LGBTQ&A

Richie Jackson: Writes A Love Letter (and a Warning) to His Gay Son

LGBTQ&A

Jeffrey Masters

Society & Culture

4.7703 Ratings

🗓️ 29 January 2020

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

"Everything good that has happened to me is because I am gay," Richie Jackson writes in his new book, Gay Like Me. "Everything I think, believe, crave, create, conquer comes from being gay." To be gay is cause for great celebration, one of the self-defining features of Richie Jackson's life — all of which exist in direct contrast to Jackson's son who is also gay and seems to exhibit a nonchalance toward his sexuality. His son describes being gay as not a big deal, and in that way, Gay Like Me serves as a course correction, a splash of cold water against this younger generation's face. It's a necessary reminder that despite where you live or how supportive your local community might be, LGBTQ people have not yet made enough progress that we can let our guards down. 

LGBTQ&A is produced and hosted by Jeffrey Masters. @jeffmasters1

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0:00.0

From Luminary Media, this is LGBTQ and A.

0:10.0

I'm Jeffrey Masters, and I have a long and sordid history with allergies.

0:16.0

So unfortunately, my voice sounds a bit whack today.

0:19.0

That is a medical term, but I hope it will not distract from the brilliance that is Richie

0:25.6

Jackson.

0:26.6

He has a new book out called Gay Like Me.

0:29.6

It's an expanded letter to his son who is also gay and has a drastically different experience

0:35.6

for both better and worse.

0:38.3

You know, these generational differences in the community are something that I think a lot about.

0:44.1

And so I'm really excited to sit down and dive into all of this with Richie.

0:48.7

Let's hear it.

0:53.4

I want to start at the beginning of the book because I was really surprised by just the first line.

1:00.0

You wrote that you always dreamed of being a father, that it was a singular drive of your life.

1:06.2

That is a really uncommon thing, I think, to hear from a gay man, let alone just a man in general.

1:13.3

I could never imagine anything more vital to do than to raise a child. And also very early,

1:22.7

I thought I would be good at it. And I don't have a lot of things I think I'd be good at,

1:29.0

but I just always thought I would be good at being a parent.

1:32.0

And as I grew up, as I evaluated things in my life,

1:37.8

I always came back to parenting is the most important thing I could do.

1:42.6

It felt the most vital, and I felt the most alive.

1:46.5

And it's also what I love most.

1:49.5

I crave responsibility, and there's not a moment of parenting that doesn't have that.

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