S13 MM67: Why is it so hard to be a single guy in 2024?: Gender roles, Turnoffs and Feminism

Heart of Dating

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Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Relationships

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🗓️ 6 September 2024

⏱️ 27 minutes

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0:00.0	People wonder why dating sucks and I'll tell you is because both sides just constantly attack and criticize each other.
0:08.0	It's just full of negativity and hating all about what the other gender is not doing for them. What's up, a fan? It's your boy, J.J. Let's do this. Dating in 2024. Has it changed? Is it different than 2023? Is it different than five years ago
0:35.0	and then ten years ago? I think personally it has I think that hyper-feminism
0:40.7	has kind of caught up like that inertia or that lagging effect of what it does to
0:46.2	men, I think it's really caught up with dating and that's why both sides are really frustrated.
0:53.0	I really feel like in some ways men have just said,
0:56.0	hey, if you don't want us here, that's fine.
0:58.0	Like we're just going to tap out.
1:00.0	But instead of me saying that to you guys, from my experience, which I know was what two years ago,
1:05.0	I thought it would be fun to get a couple single guys, a couple bachelors to give me their
1:09.9	opinion, how's it the bin the past six months, past year, what are they seeing, what are they
1:15.0	hearing, what are they feeling, and then we'll comment on their voice memos.
1:18.9	I love this new format and we've gotten some great feedback from you guys on it so we're going to keep it
1:23.3	rolling let's go before we jump in I'm only going to do one question in my
1:27.5	dms I thought this one was just so good I couldn't help us share it with you guys
1:31.5	so here we go hey j jay Hey JJ looking back I've come a long way with myself and my relationship and now I'm looking to take it to the next level. I have a financial question though so here it is. I'm 22 years old. I have about 14,000 in savings. I have a $5,000 car loan and I have a 20 case student loan.
1:48.6	I want to buy a ring for my girlfriend. I'm thinking about 5,000000 but she by no means wants an expensive
1:54.8	ring I want to get her something decent because she truly deserves it am I
1:59.8	being a good financial steward of my money if I buy the ring outright should I finance it just
2:04.4	curious to hear from a Christian man who understands the debt and financial wisdom.
2:10.0	This is such a good question.
2:11.6	I personally think number one, if you have a girl
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