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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

S18E17: Navigating The Setback Cycle (in Dating & Relationships) w/ Amy Shoenthal

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5877 Ratings

🗓️ 18 June 2024

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

Are setbacks inevitable while dating? We think so – and it's more about how you handle them to move forward. We're joined today with setback expert Amy Shoenthal to take us through the setback cycle to navigate everything from breakups, rejection, thinking you met “the one” only to realize it wasn’t, and everything in between. We're discussing what constitutes as a setback, how they can actually be a force to bring you in the right direction, and why setbacks can help you if you let them. Related Episodes: Moving Forward After A Breakup How to Have A Healthy Relationship Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. Follow Amy @amysho, learn more https://www.amyshoenthal.com/ and pick up the book 'The Setback Cycle' wherever books are sold. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

Do you think setbacks are inevitable while dating?

0:02.8

Yeah, probably, but it's all how you process them that matters.

0:07.2

Hi, I'm U.S. Schu.

0:08.8

And I'm Julie Kraftchik.

0:10.3

We're active daters turn dating sociologists here to dive into everything modern

0:14.7

dating and relationships. Welcome to the dateable podcast. Before we get into this episode a quick word from our sponsors that make it possible.

0:27.0

Hello friends.

0:28.0

Welcome back to Datable.

0:30.0

How are you all doing?

0:31.0

Everybody doing okay?

0:32.0

Pretty good I think.

0:33.2

I'm speaking on behalf of our listeners.

0:35.2

Are you there a spokesperson now?

0:38.7

Our spokesperson for all of our datable listeners

0:41.8

is now Julie Craftick.

0:43.2

I'm bringing positive energy to our listeners

0:46.0

is what I'm doing.

0:47.8

I've been trying to, when someone asked me how I'm doing,

0:50.6

I've been trying to be more descriptive with my answer.

0:53.0

That's so good, yeah.

0:55.0

Right, because we always just say,

0:56.0

I've been good, I'm fine, but now I've been giving specific examples.

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