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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

S19E15: Bringing Back Organic Connections IRL w/ Harrison Forman & Brandon Berman of Updating

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5877 Ratings

🗓️ 3 December 2024

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

What if instead of searching for the random meet-cute, we could share another way to meet IRL that actually yields more relationships? We're chatting with Brandon & Harrison about their own experiences building connection through their networks of community and friends – and how they bring that same energy to their live dating show updating. We discuss the importance of building rapport while dating, how to find environments that connect you in your most authentic state, and why sometimes the best relationships take some time and a friends-first-approach to develop into more.

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Hi, I'm U-E-S-U and I'm Julie Craftchick. We're active daters turned dating insiders,

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here to dive into everything, modern dating, and relationships. Welcome to Datable.

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