S19E4: We're in a F*cking Love Crisis (And How We Get Out)

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 17 September 2024

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

With the feeling that dating is harder than ever before and people outright giving up on love, we believe we're in a love crisis. But what does that even mean? And better yet, what do we do about it? Have no fear, as we're discussing the 5 most prominent – and some surprising– cultural shifts that got us to where we are today, why daters are feeling an increased sense of disillusionment around dating (nope, you're not alone!), and some actions you can take today to rise above the current state of modern dating.

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Yui Shoe and I'm Julie Kraftchik. We're active daters turn dating insiders.
0:06.1	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships. Welcome to
0:10.5	Datable. Hello friends.
0:19.0	Welcome back to another episode of Datable.
0:22.0	Happy to have you join us as always. Welcome back to another episode of Datable.
0:22.6	Happy to have you join us as always,
0:25.0	and we're always happy to talk about modern dating
0:28.7	and the state of modern dating right now.
0:31.4	Our favorite topic never gets old. It would be funny if one day we're
0:35.2	like today we're going to talk about finances. We're going to talk about the stock
0:40.0	market. Yep and not related to dating. Oh yeah, at all.
0:44.0	Yeah, zero relationship.
0:45.0	We've decided to pivot this to Cooking Show.
0:47.8	You can relate everything to dating, even cooking.
0:50.8	Convinced.
0:51.8	Can you? Yeah. Give me an example. Okay I think like what
0:54.8	someone's relationship is to cooking is so indicative of how they build a home, a
1:01.5	life, what expectations they have of a partner,
1:05.0	especially with like more like heter normative dynamics,
1:08.0	right?
1:09.0	Like if someone's like, oh, like a guy is like, I never cook.
1:12.0	And the expectation is you're going to be doing all that or a man like mine that loves cooking.
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