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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 924

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.76.3K Ratings

🗓️ 16 July 2024

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

A man's new boyfriend had an adult circumcision, and now can't come very easily. He wants to help his boyfriend come, but doesn't want to pressure him. How can he thread the needle and start gobbling? A straight man is in a brat/dom dynamic, where his girlfriend "misbehaves" and then gets "punished" by the caller. They all love it, but now she is also seeing a different man who leaves marks on her body. She showed the caller a photo of herself as a way to elicit his punishment. But he suddenly feels jealous! Not sexy! How can they alter their dynamic so everyone gets what they want? On the Magnum, it turns out that Dan is a medical mystery! Why can't he find his own car in a parking lot? Why does he meet people over and over again without recognizing them? In an attempt to get a clear diagnosis, Dan brings on the charming and hilarious science reporter Sadie Dingfelder. Her new book, "Do I Know You? A Faceblind Reporter's Journey into the Science of Sight, Memory and Imagination," should offer clues into Dan's...condition. They talk about swiping right or left when you can't register a face. And how does masturbation work when you don't have a visual imagination? It's wonderfully weird! And, a newly divorced man is dating again. He was a stay-at-home dad, as he is independently wealthy. But now, when women hear he doesn't have a job, they reject him. He doesn't want or have to work. What gives? [email protected] 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage. This episode is brought to you by Hims, providing affordable access to ED treatment, online. Start your free online visit today at Hims.com/Savage. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. For the month of May, Helix is offering up to 30% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows! Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now.

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Love cast at savage.

0:03.7

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary or if you're looking for sexual harmony.

0:13.0

Well, there's nothing you can't pass.

0:19.0

On the saddest lovecast. Hey everybody, I am not going to open the show this week by commenting on the Trump

0:28.0

assassination attempt in Pennsylvania because I don't have an interesting hot take besides guns are bad and so is he

0:37.3

You come to a show like mine for a break from news and politics and if you want a full blast of politics from me and a guest you can always

0:44.3

listen to sex and politics that special bonus podcast we do for our Magnum subs but all I really want to say

0:50.8

right now about the news that's dominating every podcast but mine

0:56.9

is let's be kind to each other and let's do everything we can to keep Donald Trump out of the White House.

1:05.8

Everything we can except for that.

1:10.0

All right, let's shake it off.

1:11.5

I'm going to talk about something else now.

1:13.2

Actually, Nancy, give me a little bit of the opening music so we can just restart.

1:18.3

Well, there's nothing you can't ask.

1:25.0

On the Savage Love Cast.

1:30.1

We lost two pop culture icons this weekend. First, Dr. Ruth Westheimer. Dr. Ruth was a hugely important figure in what we now call the Sex and

1:37.4

relationship advice space.

1:39.3

She was also really an icon in pop culture and I was an admirer of hers everyone was I want to say

1:47.3

may her memory be a blessing but there's no may about it Dr Ruth's memory

1:51.4

definitely a blessing. We also lost Richard Simmons this weekend,

1:57.2

the Diet and Exercise Guru in the short shorts and sparkly tank tops. Simmons death made me remember all the gay men in

2:08.9

public life who weren't out because they couldn't be out, but who, like Simmons who wasn't out, refused to hide.

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