Savage Lovecast Episode 934

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.7 • 6.3K Ratings

🗓️ 24 September 2024

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

She slept with a lad who didn't wear a condom when he said he would, came inside her and wouldn't help pay for Plan B. The hitch? He's great in bed, and she is hard up. Should she sleep with him again, if he promises to be a good boy? A caller challenges Dan on his personal dislike of massages. "How can this possibly be?" asks the caller. Our guest this week, is the brilliant psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel. Dan and Esther talk about infidelity, how monogamous relationships can turn into police states, and the difference between sex and eroticism- among many other things. We put a chunk of this conversation on the Micro, but there's a lot more on the Magnum. It's the classic bait n' switch. A queer man met his wife via Feeld where she claimed to be interested adventurous sex. Now that they're married, they are monogamous, vanilla and the caller is tearing his hair out. They are doing all the therapy. What they aren't doing is having amazing kinky sex. [email protected] 206-302-2064 Check out Esther Perel at EstherPerel.com. https://www.estherperel.com/course-bundles/the-desire-bundle Get 15% the desire courses until 12/13/24 with the code: SAVAGE15 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 25% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows! Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Love cast at savage.
0:03.7	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary or if you're looking for sexual harmony. Well, there's nothing you can't ask. On the savage love cast. Okay, okay, men. I think it's time. I think we need to stage an intervention for all of our
0:28.3	straight girlfriends. I came to that conclusion after reading about the affair of sorts between New York magazine
0:33.9	star political reporter, 31-year-old Olivia Newsy, and 70-year-old anti-Vax brainworm sufferer Robert F. Kennedy Jr. Now, most the time gay men and straight women are in
0:45.1	agreement about who's hot. Chris Hemsworth for example gay men and straight
0:49.2	women all agree hot but there are guys out there that only straight women think are hot and they're usually not great guys.
0:58.0	Guys like Vince Vaughn, I assume he's a lovely person. Vince Vaughn starred in a string of hit comedies in the 90s
1:04.6	in early 2000s, and straight girls made him a sex symbol,
1:08.7	and they have never taken responsibility for that
1:10.9	or apologized. Gay men, of course, we never thought Vince Vaughn was hot. We have nothing to apologize for on the Vince Vaughn front
1:18.8	37 different straight women had sex with Robert F Kennedy Jr. while he was married to his first wife,
1:25.2	who sadly committed suicide after finding the list of other women who found her husband
1:29.7	irresistible, and now Newsy has nuked her career for him.
1:34.4	She was placed on leave from New York magazine after the affair she was having with
1:38.1	Kennedy, the affair of sorts, whose campaign she was covering at a time seemed to be boosting was discovered.
1:44.8	Look, I get it.
1:47.2	Lots of younger gay men, like lots of younger straight women find older and more powerful men attractive the whole daddy thing I am not
1:55.7	complaining about it I have personally benefited from it but not one gay man I know
2:01.2	young or old would send whole picks to Robert F. Kennedy Jr.
2:05.9	That man is thoroughly resistable to gay men, but apparently not to straight women.
2:16.0	So what I'm thinking is that maybe a well-timed intervention, a room filled with newsies gay besties just looking at her
2:20.0	and slowly shaking their heads and saying,
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