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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 952

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.76.3K Ratings

🗓️ 28 January 2025

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

A straight man worries that his one-on-one OnlyFans interactions are a form of infidelity.  A divorced man is out dating and learning about tantra. A couple of women he's seen were both mothers, and although he found them attractive and his dick got hard, he couldn't come with either of them. They both blamed themselves for having changed postpartum bodies. Who is the culprit- the ladies or his dick?  On the Magnum, Dan chats with cultural historian Kelly Coyne about off-kilter domestic arrangements- married couples who live apart, stay at home dads, and married couples who sleep apart. (Spoiler: it's the snoring!) As usual, straight folks have a lot to learn from gay arrangements.  And, a woman used to pin her orgasms on cuckold fantasies. But ever since she got into poly relationships, and the thought of her partner sleeping with other women was no longer taboo, her fantasies fail to get her there. How can she rewire her erotic inner life and start to come again? This episode is brought to you by Hims, providing affordable access to ED treatment, online. Start your free online visit today at Hims.com/Savage. This episode is brought to you by Feeld, a dating app where the open-minded can meet the like-minded. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. This episode is brought to you by Liberator: makers of pillows, shapes and furniture for new exciting sex. They’re offering an additional 10% off site-wide; exclusively for our listeners! Go to Liberator.com, and use promo code ‘SAVAGE.’ Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From cuckolding, to bisexuality, jealousy to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship Show for grownups.

0:05.1

If you're under 18, get out of here, youngin.

0:09.0

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:18.4

while there's nothing you can't ask on the savage love cast walking home from the pot

0:28.3

shop in my neighborhood the other day doing two things at once eating an edible and doom

0:33.6

scrolling as I wandered into traffic I suddenly suddenly felt like, reading what I was reading

0:39.7

pretty soon, I'm going to be living in a country where no one goes to prison for possessing marijuana

0:45.0

anymore, but people go to prison for possessing pornography. That's the plan in Oklahoma,

0:50.8

where Republican State Senator Dusty Devers, which is a porn name, if I ever heard one,

0:56.3

Republican State Senator Dusty Devers introduced a bill the day after Trump was sworn into office

1:02.2

or back into office that would put anyone who produces, distributes, or possesses pornography

1:07.9

in prison for 10 years. The legislation also includes prison terms of up to 30 years

1:14.2

for anyone found guilty of quote unquote porn trafficking, which the bill does not define,

1:20.6

which is a problem. As the New Republic pointed out a few years back, trafficking is less a

1:26.7

clear-cut crime than a call to moral panic.

1:30.5

There's no legal definition of trafficking.

1:32.5

Trafficking means whatever a cop or a prosecutor wants it to mean.

1:37.0

So in Oklahoma, porn trafficking could meet anything from transporting someone across state

1:41.2

lines to appear in porn against their will, to flying into

1:44.7

Will Rogers Airport in Oklahoma City with nude pictures of your wife on your phone. It'll be up to the

1:50.3

cops in Oklahoma. Lots of stupid bills get introduced by random state senators and state house members

1:56.9

all across the country every year. State legislatures, we are not sending our best.

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