Savage Lovecast Episode 954

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.7 • 6.3K Ratings

🗓️ 11 February 2025

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

A married gay man is newly poly with his husband and boyfriend. Simple question: Who should he celebrate Valentine's Day with? A non-binary AFAB person frequents a sex club where women pay much less than men or couples. And there's a dress code...men must be naked, and women must wear lingerie. The caller wears the damn lingerie to snag the discount and to get access to men. But they don't want to be addressed as female in dirty talk or recognized as female in any way. Discuss. On the Magnum, Dan brings back his old college sweetheart, Mike Pesca of The Gist, Not Even Mad, and his new comedy show Funny You Should Mention. Pesca has been covering politics (and sports) for a long time and these two have chemistry! They talked about having sex with Trumpers vs. maintaining familial relations with Maga folk, hot footballmen, and eliminating the penny. And butt sex. A woman ended things with a guy she had been seeing for a couple of months, because he felt swoony and she felt "meh." But as time passed, she thinks about him more and more. One year later, she's considering reaching out to him again. Will this just break his heart again? [email protected] 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Feeld, a dating app where the open-minded can meet the like-minded. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. This episode is brought to you by Dame Products, Sex toys designed by Women, For Women. For 20% off your first order, go to Dame.com and use offer code SAVAGE20 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 27% off site-wide with a mattress order + 2 FREE Dream Pillows! Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to bondage, trans rights to sex education and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship Show for grownups.
0:05.1	If you're under 18, get out of here, young un.
0:08.7	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary,
0:12.5	or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:18.2	well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:26.6	At this point, I shouldn't have to remind everyone about my go-to Valentine's Day advice,
0:31.5	Fuck First.
0:32.4	But if you need to be reminded or your partner needs to be reminded,
0:36.7	consider yourself reminded, and you're welcome. But you know, you can remind your partner needs to be reminded, consider yourself reminded and you're welcome.
0:39.3	But you know, you can remind your partner to fuck first every morning by handing them their coffee
0:44.0	in one of our fuck first mugs while wearing your very own fuck first t-shirt, both of which can
0:49.5	be ordered at savage. love slash merch. And if you order a mug or a t-shirt today, well, you won't have them
0:56.8	by Valentine's Day, which is on Friday. It's too late to get fuck-first merch by Valentine's Day.
1:01.9	But if you order now, you will definitely have your fuck-first mugs and t-shirts and time for
1:07.9	National Pig Day on March 1st and National Pound Cake Day on March 4th.
1:14.7	Both fuck-first appropriate holidays if you want them to be.
1:20.1	Zooming out for a second.
1:22.0	The existence of fuck-first sex advice and fuck-first merch, Savage.com slash merch, savage.
1:26.9	com slash merch. And fuck- first t-shirts all of that
1:30.1	raises an important question who or what actually fucked first well according to a story headlined
1:37.7	what was the first animal to have sex a story that came out this morning in bbc wildlife magazine
1:43.8	which i have subscribed to since this morning, the first living organisms to participate in some kind of genetic exchange of material were bacteria around two billion years ago.
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