Savage Lovecast Episode 958

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.7 • 6.3K Ratings

🗓️ 11 March 2025

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

A woman is seeing a guy who only grudgingly goes down south. Sex for them always begins with her giving him a BJ, but because they have a Dom/sub dynamic, he feels he doesn't owe her anything. Here's a fun word scramble game that astute Savage Lovecast listeners can play! Unscramble these letters to form the acronym that will give the caller clear direction on what to do: TMAFD A man is curious, confused, and bewildered about what lesbians mean when they say they have sex. On the Magnum, Dan's been talking about bisexual men quite a bit on the show. Are they the luckiest bastards ever, or do they have a rough row to hoe? For this very special "What Are You Doing?" segment, Dan brings on Sam Lent who self-identifies as "A shameless woman who seeks bi men to fuck." How does she search for them? How do bi and straight men differ? And why are the men of Denver so very into pegging? Sam thinks bi men are a national treasure, and we think Sam is pretty awesome. A woman's pal has an OnlyFans account. Sometimes this friend stays overnight at the caller's house. The caller saw that her buddy had filmed a session from her house and put it up as content without consulting the caller first. Is it prudish to feel like her home is off-limits? [email protected] 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Blueland. Going eco has never been easier. Revolutionary, refillable cleaning essentials eliminating single-use plastic. Right now, get 15% off your first order by going to Blueland.com/Savage This episode is brought to you by Hims, providing affordable access to ED treatment, online. Start your free online visit today at Hims.com/Savage. This episode is brought to you by Dame Products, Sex toys designed by Women, For Women. For 20% off your first order, go to Dame.com and use offer code SAVAGE20 Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project.From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship Show for grownups.
0:05.1	If you're under 18, get out of here, young un.
0:08.8	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary,
0:12.6	or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:17.8	while there's nothing you can't ask on the Sadish Muckcast.
0:26.3	According to the SF Chronicle, San Francisco's population of 20-somethings just hit a 17-year low.
0:34.3	In the last 10 years, the SF Chronicle reports, the share of 20-somethings in San Francisco
0:38.9	dropped from 18% of the population to just 14% of the population. The median age, the people
0:46.6	living in San Francisco, keeps climbing mid-40s now, and if current trends continue, it's going to hit 50
0:53.1	pretty soon, which all by itself doesn't
0:56.0	bode well for the health vitality and just general fuckability of San Francisco.
1:01.6	Also, doesn't bode well for the health of our democracy.
1:05.7	Now, I'm not saying, backing up a little bit, that old people, old people don people don't fuck ahem but if a city
1:12.9	doesn't want to become a retirement community where old people still fuck they
1:18.2	don't call the villages in Florida the STD capital of America for nothing but if a
1:23.7	city doesn't want to become a retirement community it needs needs young people, young adults, lots of them,
1:29.5	young people who grew up in that city and want to stay there, and young people who grew up in
1:33.8	bum-fuck Red State and wanted to move to that city, to live and work and fuck.
1:40.5	Look, young people fuck differently because when young people fuck around, young people are
1:46.3	fucking around and finding out, finding out who they are, finding out what they want,
1:52.0	creating tribes, finding their tribe, and making scenes.
1:57.5	I don't mean those messy scenes that sometimes go viral online, although they do sometimes
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