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The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

Sexual Healing: Finding Joy in Intimacy Again

The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

XO Marriage

Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 15 July 2024

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! In this episode, we'll dive into the sensitive topic of painful sex in marriage. were exploring various causes, including vaginismus, allergies to condoms or lubricants, mental blocks, and menopause. Emphasizing the importance of seeking solutions and avoiding blame, we encourage listeners to consult doctors, and therapists, and conduct their own research. We also remind couples that intimacy can still thrive through other forms, even if intercourse isn't possible. Tune in for valuable insights and heartfelt advice on navigating this challenging issue together. ----------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Topic of Painful Sex 01:20 Causes of Painful Sex: Vaginismus and Allergies 03:15 Challenges of Waiting for Sex Until Marriage 07:02 Supporting and Believing Each Other 08:01 Finding Solutions and Not Settling for Discomfort 09:25 Finding Intimacy and Growth During Difficult Times Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey friends welcome back to summertime on the naked marriage podcast where we're keeping it steamy all summer today in particular

0:07.8

because we're talking about one of your favorite topics sex and the naked nation that's all of you guys who listen to the podcast, the

0:14.1

Naked Nation loves the sex episodes and we... The sex opposed...

0:18.3

How do you know? Sex, sex episodes? See you're good at that. Sex episodes. So this is one of those and that. That's right. Yeah, we're excited. Actually especially she gets extra excited about these sex episodes. He loves whenever we get to have a conversation about it, he wants to tee me up for talking

0:37.0

about all the different things about sex.

0:39.9

And so today is no different.

0:42.4

We are talking about sex.

0:43.8

I won't even tell you exactly what we're going to say about it,

0:46.2

but you know it's going to be interesting.

0:47.5

So let's dive in.

0:50.3

Yeah, painful sex is something we've talked about in the past, but in this series on sex to start the new year.

0:56.0

We wanted to revisit it because so many people experience this.

1:01.0

And like a lot of the topics we've addressed so far it's not

1:03.8

talked about enough and so people that are struggling with it are often struggling in

1:08.1

isolation yeah and we just want this to be a safe place for you to be able to talk through work through whatever struggles you might be dealing with in marriage and even in sex specifically.

1:19.0

So painful sex can be a variety of things.

1:22.0

The most common is something called vaginismus, which is something that the woman experiences, usually from the base of the muscles at the floor of the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, The

1:34.2

The groin, it's called the pelvic floor.

1:36.2

And the pelvic floor is that group of muscles that when it's tight it can create extra pain for the woman it can make it difficult for the husband to penetrate

1:47.1

It can make pain just hurt and feel awkward and there are physical therapists that specialize in pelvic floor issues.

1:55.3

There's nothing wrong with you.

1:57.2

You're not defective if you're experiencing this.

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