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Welcome to the Real Marriage podcast with Mark and Grace.

And we are talking about making decisions.

And this is the third part of a four-part series.

And we're talking about deferring.

And so when the husband defers to the wife and making a decision we just covered the husband is the head

of the home making the decision this is on the wife being deferred to because maybe she has

more wisdom in this area of the decision and so they still discuss it but the woman or the wife ultimately is the one who is deferred to

to make the decision. So when it comes to making decisions in a marriage, I mean, the wrong way

to make it is alone, independent. You don't even talk about it. You're like, hey, I decided

that we're moving to Colorado. And you're like, hey,

we didn't talk about that. The other bad way to make the decision is the strongest

personality always just makes the decision. Because that is not oneness. That's not working together.

That's just, you know, the strongest personality prevailing all the time

is going to lead to a lot of foolish decisions because it's not good to be alone. You need each other.

That's what the Bible says. And also, um, how can you execute a decision together if you don't

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