Should We Date One Person At A Time? ft. Kevin Nahai
We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
4.2 • 2.4K Ratings
🗓️ 29 May 2022
⏱️ 60 minutes
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Summary
Today’s episode features speaker and coach Kevin Nahai. Kevin and I discuss dating intentionally, why he thinks you shouldn’t date more than one person at a time, his version of a 3 date rule, how to be deserving of a partner, and more. The episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to successfully have a FWB and find one, what women settle for and what men settle for, and things you should talk about on dates 1-5 and by the time you’re official.
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| 0:00.0 | The following podcast is a deer media production. |
| 0:06.5 | Hey guys, welcome back to We Met at Acme. Today is an episode where I fight with our guests the |
| 0:14.0 | entire time, but not fight. We just argue, you know, and I feel like you're going to really like |
| 0:19.5 | the episode. You know where I stand with a lot of my dating rules and things like that, but he |
| 0:28.0 | definitely puts up a good challenge. And I think the bottom line is that like you take what you want. |
| 0:34.9 | He has some really great points and I definitely don't deny that. And if you want a certain person, |
| 0:42.6 | then I think you go after his advice or if something hasn't been working, you go, you should take |
| 0:48.3 | his advice. But either way, I'm excited for you to hear it. Definitely listen until the end because |
| 0:54.7 | it gets heated up in here. Anyway, I'm going to start by going over a few things that you wanted me |
| 1:03.8 | to talk about a few of you had reached out about that I think would be a really good good things |
| 1:09.3 | to go over. And the first one is how to successfully find a friend with benefits and have one and |
| 1:15.9 | what that relationship should look like. I feel like we've talked about this a lot, but it is really |
| 1:22.2 | important. And the way the best way to do it is if you're a woman listening, I would say a younger |
| 1:30.5 | guy is a great friend with benefits because you're not taking them too seriously because they don't |
| 1:37.4 | want anything serious most of the time. And you don't feel like they're ready for something serious |
| 1:42.5 | because they're younger. They also younger guys tend to look up to older women and respect |
| 1:48.2 | them a little bit more. I don't want to say older women, but you know, like a woman a few years |
| 1:52.6 | above ahead of them. I think also if you go on a date and there's not really a spark, but there |
| 1:58.3 | is a sexual attraction, you can turn that into a friend with benefits. And it's pretty easy to do. |
| 2:04.4 | You just say something like, do you want to hang out, no strings attached? Or like, I know we didn't |
| 2:09.5 | feel a connection, but would you be open to like a casual hook up thing? Ten or ten times, |
| 2:14.6 | they usually say yes. And then when I had a friend with benefits, I liked to cultivate a relationship |
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