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We Met At Acme

Stable Relationships Are Not Sexy ft. Therapy Jeff

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.22.4K Ratings

🗓️ 23 June 2022

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

On today’s episode, I sit down with therapist Jeff Guenther aka Therapy Jeff. Jeff and I discuss why stability isn’t sexy, his take on the 90/10 rule, how to know if you should work through something in therapy vs. break up, how to suggest therapy to your friend or partner, tips to break out of a bickering cycle, why we stalk our exes on social media, knowing your partner is the one, and so much more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my reaction to Sunday’s episode, when a couple fights in front of you, and why the no contact rule post break up works.

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a deer media production.

0:06.5

Hey guys, welcome back to We Met It Acme. I'm so happy that we're doing this bonus episode

0:12.3

because I just couldn't wait another second to bring you Jeff.

0:17.8

There be Jeff is just the bright light among the chaos that this world has.

0:24.3

I mean, he's just amazing. Like I loved recording with him. I learned so much from him.

0:31.0

And I really just vibe with his energy. Like he is fully grounded to the earth.

0:38.0

And you'll see that in his astrological chart. And it really shows. I have to say it really shows.

0:45.6

And I feel like he gives incredible advice. So I'm so grateful that I was able to get him on this

0:53.9

podcast. Before we get into that, I'm just going to reflect a little bit on Sunday's episode.

1:00.2

Yes, it was wild. I know many people are outraged. Many people, not as many people, but some people

1:07.7

reach out to me and they said, you know, this is what I've been told or I have seen this happen.

1:13.9

And so I think the bottom line is like it's about your environment. Like I brought it up to the

1:19.0

men in my life and they were vehemently against everything that she said. They were like, it's just

1:25.1

ridiculous. You know, it's just it's not the case. And I actually have my dad here on speaker

1:32.8

phone because I just really needed to bring back hope into this world so that you guys don't

1:40.0

think that this is normal. What this woman said, what Nelly said, even though, you know, I'm sure

1:46.1

she's a good person and I don't want to be saying anything bad about her, but I just I can't

1:52.4

agree with what she said. So I wanted my dad to kind of share what he thinks as well. So dad,

1:58.8

what were your thoughts on if, you know, high value man is someone that cheats and you turn the

2:04.8

other cheek, et cetera? Well, I think the first thing that struck me when I was considered

2:10.7

podcast and burger, talk about high value man. Obviously, I'm the father of girls, but so I may

2:18.2

be a little embarrassed, but I, you know, she didn't mention anything about high value women.

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