Hi, my name is John Kim and I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth. I share my feelings and revelations. I believe in casual or clinical and

with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose because self-help

doesn't have to be so complicated.

Hey real quick, before we get to today's episode, I want to remind you to check out my new book Single on Purpose,

Part Memoir from all my singlehood journeys, but also real life stories from clients.

I think you will find it entertaining and also helpful, not just if you're single single but also if you're in a relationship

because this book is not an anti-relationship book it's a pro-relationship with yourself.

Connect to yourself first check out single-on-purpose.

It is time to give single Hood a cape because it's been vilified for so long.

So this person I'm about to interview, fell from the sky, and I really believe in collisions, I believe that we're meant to meet people and through that exchange,

whether it's one day or many years, that two people are shifted internally as well as externally and Tez Brewer is someone that has really

she came at my life when I actually I needed her but also

Where I've her coming into my life has made me feel

More professional and and also she's helped me with so many things.

Tez, welcome.

Hi, thank you.

How are you?

I'm good. How are you? I'm doing well.

So for those who don't know know Tez is on paper. She's my assistant

But I feel like you're so much more than that. I don't even know what to call myself. Yeah.

You know, I've never had an assistant before.

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