The 2 Things That Will Hurt The Narcissist the Most

Trauma & Narcissism Redefined

Caroline Strawson

Narcissisticabuse, Health & Fitness, Narcissist, Self-improvement, Education, Recovery, Mental Health, Trauma

4.8 • 701 Ratings

🗓️ 29 March 2022

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

Narcissists love to have everything go their way, so when they don’t have that control, they can start to be negatively impacted. A narcissist not having control can open up a way for you to exit your relationship with them. In this episode, I will share the story of how my relationship with a narcissist came to an end and how I learned what a narcissist reacts to negatively.

What you will learn in this episode:

How I dealt with my narcissistic ex and how he reacted to my success
The two things a narcissist will be hurt by and why they hate to give up control
Why narcissists react negatively to seeing others succeed

I hope this episode helps you mold your relationship with a narcissist to a point where you can leave the relationship so that you can begin to transform and heal yourself. Narcissists will always be hurt by the two things I will share with you in this episode, so listen carefully.

Resources:

The Accredited Narcissistic Trauma Informed Coaching Certification Waitlist: https://go.carolinestrawson.com/NTICCWaitlist2022
Join my Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse
Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/
My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/

DISCLAIMER: THIS INFORMATION IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR CLINICAL CARE. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTH CARE PROVIDER FOR GUIDANCE SPECIFIC TO YOUR CASE. THIS VIDEO DISCUSSES NARCISSISM IN GENERAL.

THE VIDEO DOES NOT REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON, AND SHOULD NOT BE USED TO REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON, AS HAVING NARCISSISM. PERMISSION IS NOT GRANTED TO LINK TO OR REPOST THIS PODCAST, ESPECIALLY TO SUPPORT AN ALLEGATION THAT THE MAKERS OF THIS VIDEO BELIEVE, OR SUPPORT A CLAIM, THAT A SPECIFIC PERSON IS A NARCISSIST. THAT WOULD BE AN UNAUTHORIZED MISUSE OF THE PODCAST AND THE INFORMATION FEATURED IN IT

Transcript

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0:00.0	Welcome to the narcissistic trauma recovery podcast. I'm Caroline Strawson and I'll be sharing with you
0:09.6	awareness, understanding and education about the devastating effects of narcissistic abuse to help you thrive.
0:16.5	I want you to know that I've been exactly where you are and I believe you.
0:21.4	And this show is all about taking you from trauma to transformation.
0:27.6	Hey, my friends.
0:29.0	I hope you are okay.
0:30.3	And welcome to my podcast.
0:32.4	I'm absolutely delighted to have you here.
0:35.4	And in today's episode, I want to talk to you about really two things
0:39.7	that hurt the narcissists the most. Now, you know from all my podcasts, I don't necessarily
0:45.6	like to focus on the narcissist as such, because ultimately, regardless of how the narcissist is
0:52.2	and behaves, this is actually about you. But in this episode,
0:57.2	I want to give you two things that actually hurt the narcissist the most. I'm going to go
1:04.3	through both of those. I just want to tell you, before we go any further, I'm recording this
1:10.2	podcast from in London. So I live about an
1:12.6	hour's north of London and I'm down here in London in the middle of a six-day training of my
1:18.5	somatic experiencing, which is an incredible trauma release therapy, really looking at the body.
1:25.5	And it's a three-year training program. I'm in my first year,
1:28.4	but this is the latter part of the training. And boy, boy, is it amazing. I mean, I just love the
1:34.6	body work with what I do. I know so many have that as a missing piece in the work with clients,
1:41.0	because, you know, talking therapy can have good validation for you and it
1:46.2	can be soothing, but it can actually keep you feeling more traumatized. I mean, how many of you
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