The BDSM Kink Scene PT2: “My Kink is Not Your Kink”

Was I In A Cult?

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🗓️ 25 November 2024

⏱️ 45 minutes

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CONTENT WARNING: This episode discusses sensitive and potentially triggering topics around sex and sexual dynamics. Amelia returns to share the conclusion of her story, exposing the hidden dangers she encountered within the BDSM kink scene in the UK. While this subculture promised sexual liberation and empowerment, Amelia reveals how it often justified harmful dynamics and enabled exploitation. In this episode, Amelia reveals the unsettling realities of concepts like ‘dark age play’ and ‘consensual non-consent,’ where blurred boundaries and the guise of consent are used to excuse abuse and shield predators from accountability. Her candid account delves into the manipulation, cult-like groupthink, and the profound psychological toll of her more than 10-years immersed in the scene. Through her story, Amelia highlights the importance of questioning systems that silence dissent, the slippery slope of power dynamics, and the courage it takes to finally shut the door for good on an environment that no longer reflects your values. Amelia's journey serves as a reminder that true empowerment comes from recognizing harm, standing against exploitation, and reclaiming your voice—even when it means walking away from the spaces you once called home. ____ Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code “INACULT” at LumeDeodorant.com! ____ Resist aging at the cellular level, try Qualia Senolytic. Go to Qualialife.com/CULT for up to 50% off and use code “CULT” at checkout for an additional 15% off. ____ Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/FB: @wasiinacult Have your own story? Email us: [email protected] Please support Was I In A Cult? Through Patreon (we appreciate the hell out of you guys): patreon.com/wasiinacult Merch is here! wasiinacult.com

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0:00.0	The views, information, or opinions expressed by the guest appearing on this episode solely
0:04.7	belong to the guest and do not represent or reflect the views or positions of the hosts,
0:10.3	the show, podcast one, this network, or any of their respective affiliates.
0:15.6	Please note this episode discusses sex and sexual acts.
0:19.4	Please listen accordingly.
0:21.6	So I could tell you about things I've done and gross out your audience.
0:27.6	Or I could say the thing I think where the harm really is psychologically and I don't want to unintentionally replay psycho drama with somebody else
0:38.9	because I can't trust my filter to know
0:41.1	whether I'm picking somebody
0:43.0	who I can have a healthy relationship with
0:46.1	or whether I'm being driven by those issues
0:49.2	where I feel like I need to punish my father
0:51.5	or a pseudo father figure or replace some trauma.
1:05.3	Welcome everyone to was I in a cult. I'm Liz Ayacuzzi.
1:09.5	And me, this is the Raspi, Tyler Mesa. I have to apologize.
1:13.1	I am a little bit sick. I have been for a few days. I have a kindergartner. He brings home
1:19.0	adorable drawings and not so adorable germs. Tyler, thank you for being here. I appreciate you showing up for the job no matter what.
1:31.3	You know, you put the helmet on, Liz, and you go down in the coal mine. So today, we complete
1:37.1	Amelia's story of her experience in the BDSM kink scene in the UK. Now, this is a part two, so if you haven't yet, please start with part one of her story.
1:47.7	Yeah, part one will explain how the scene works and get you updated on all the terms you need to know in order to understand the rest of this particular episode.
1:56.5	Terms like CBT, which is cock and bull torture,. Lunch. St. Andrew's Cross's, spicy straight.
2:03.6	P.I.V. Pinescing vagina sex.
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