it's really important to take a big step back and say, God designed Eve with this ability to judge,

to oppose Adam, to create this dynamic relationship so that the family can both be led well

by the father, like led into sometimes even dangerous or very critical missions, but in a way that's

hyper relational and honoring to all the people and is centered on

and is saturated in love.

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Hey, guys, welcome back to the podcast. I wanted to take some time today to look at some topics that

I've been thinking about for a long time and having a chance to address really head on. And

there's a video that really sort of

stuck out to me that Jonathan Haidth recorded. And he talked about girls specifically. And kind of

just how girls are unique from boys and a part of how that works itself out in today's social

media landscape. But there's a huge implication to what he's about to say with regards

to family that almost I never hear anyone talk about. So I wanted to share that with you guys

today, kind of as the first clip. So I want to play this for you guys and then we'll talk about it.

Girls aggression has always been relational. They don't punch each other. They don't threaten to

put each other's heads in the toilet. I mean, it happens sometimes, but it's not that common.

With girls, it's the movie mean girls.

It's relational aggression.

They're become extremely skilled at damaging another girl's relationships or her reputation.

They're masters of exile teenage girls.

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