The Manipulation Tactics of a Controlling Abuser - Domestic Violence, Narcissist Abuse, Emotional Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 6 May 2022

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Brandon talks about the manipulation tactics an abuser uses to gain control, isolate you, and erode your sense of self. Plus they discuss, triangulation, threats, physical abuse, intimidation, flying monkeys, fear, obligation, guilt, the divide & conquer technique, arguments, word salad, sleep deprivation, minimization, justification, reasoning, gaslighting, accusations, cheating, projection, blame shifting, beliefs, nitpicking, stonewalling, and much more. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] Thank you to our sponsor CREDIT KARMA. Check your credit score on Credit Karma for free! Plus Credit Karma can find you loan offers at creditkarma.com/loanoffers and that's 100% free too! Head on over to creditkarma.com/loanoffers and find personalized loan offers that fit you today! Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:29.2	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, we talk about the manipulation tactics and
0:36.2	abuser uses to gain control, isolate you, and erode your sense of self. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, everyone.
1:08.4	I am Brandon Chadwick, And today, it's just me. It's just me by myself. And I hope everyone
1:18.9	enjoys this episode. Today, we are going to be discussing controlling manipulation and abuse tactics that erode oneself and how these
1:33.0	tactics are built to question your reality and to isolate you.
1:40.0	And I put together this document that I think eventually I'll be putting on our website.
1:49.7	And I think I put it all in the correct order.
1:53.9	It's an interesting kind of document to look at things.
1:59.6	And I thought I'd share it with everyone today and help people see things that maybe they weren't seeing and understand why these tactics, these controlling manipulation and abuse tactics are used.
2:16.4	And to give some examples throughout the whole entire
2:19.6	episode today as well. So I want to thank everyone for listening and I hope I do this justice.
2:27.6	It's doing an episode by yourself isn't easy. And whoever does a podcast where it's just them, it's not an easy thing to do. And
2:37.4	kudos to whoever that is. I'm sure a lot of people listening have their own shows. So before I
2:43.0	begin, if you want to be a guest on our Survivor Story show, please do go to Narcissistapocalypse.com.
2:52.1	Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form.
2:54.7	You click on that button.
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