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Here's your success mentor, Darren Hardy.

We all have unspoken angst.

Now, the problem is the energy and the drama of a situation are always 10 times more intense when it's kept

inside and unspoken. But once it's released outside, the light becomes 10 times brighter

inside. You probably don't like confrontation. I get it. Unless you're a psychopath, this only makes you a normal human being. No problem.

But having the courage to be confrontational is essential for you and the one you have unspoken difficulty

with. A few years ago, I had some difficulty with a colleague. This went on for months. I was

convinced he was perpetually sabotaging my efforts, speaking ill of me behind my back to my staff,

and engaging in all sorts of covert activities. I even lost some sleep over it on more than

one occasion, and I started waking up thinking about him in the situation.

I finally grew some chutzpah and took him to lunch.

I told him how I felt and what I thought was going on.

He was flabbergasted, as none of what I accused him of doing, he had been a part of it all.

He then told me what I had done to him, apparently, nearly a year ago, which also never happened,

or at least in the way that he thought it had.

It was a complete misunderstanding.

Yet, our mutual angst had been building, and we were both starting to act on those invented beliefs about each other literally as soon as we both spoke

and released our angst it was gone completely 100% by the way this is not only

essential for clearing up relationships in your life,

it is also a matter of life or death, yours in fact. You see, emotions control your thinking,

your behavior and your actions. Emotions affect your physical body as much as your body affects your feelings and thinking.

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