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Adult Child

Unpacking Dysfunctional Family Roles: 3 Sisters, 3 Very Different Childhoods

Adult Child

Andrea

Relationships, Health & Fitness, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Mental Health

4.91.8K Ratings

🗓️ 16 April 2025

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

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Dysfunctional families don’t raise kids—they assign roles. In this powerful episode, three sisters unpack the parts they were forced to play and how they’re breaking free.

Andrea sits down with three sisters—Kayla, Mariah, and Jackie—to explore the complex and often unspoken dynamics between siblings raised in the same dysfunctional home. While they shared the same environment, their emotional experiences, survival strategies, and lasting wounds were remarkably different.

Whether you’re the scapegoat, the golden child, the lost one, or somewhere in between, this conversation will leave you feeling seen.

What you'll hear in this episode:

  • The different “roles” assigned to siblings in dysfunctional families—and how they shape identity and self-worth
  • How unresolved childhood wounds continue to play out in adult relationships
  • What it’s like to awaken to the dysfunction as siblings at different times
  • The power of individual healing—and the added layer of healing alongside siblings
  • Why finding community (like The Shitshow) can be a total game-changer

🎧 Tune in now and be reminded: you’re not alone in untangling the past—and healing doesn’t have to be done in isolation.

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0:00.0

There are two types of siblings and dysfunctional families, those who break the cycle and those who repeat it.

0:06.4

My name is Andrea and this is adult child.

0:09.2

Welcome back to adult child where we take a deep dive into the impact of growing up in a dysfunctional family.

0:15.6

Ahoy, my dear, shitchance, it's been a while since I've done that. For any new listeners, my name is

0:24.0

Andrea. I am a total and complete shit show. I am an adult child of an alcoholic and dysfunctional

0:31.7

family. I am a recovering alcoholic myself. I'm a recovering candy crush addict. For real. I just want to let you guys

0:42.1

know that I just released the first video of a series of YouTube videos that I'm doing. The series is

0:49.2

called The Many Faces of Functional Freeze. And this first face that we are exploring is my face, my breed of functional freeze,

1:01.0

which is the stuck and shame-filled overthinker.

1:06.4

And I got to say, there's very little content out there specifically talking to this as it relates

1:12.2

to functional freeze. I remember Googling functional freeze and procrastination and finding

1:19.6

very little out there about it. So I'm really hoping that this can reach a lot of people. Because I

1:26.3

want to be honest, I think that there is like a functional freeze epidemic out

1:31.2

there.

1:31.5

I think a shitload of people are in functional freeze and have no damn clue that they are.

1:38.3

So go see this video.

1:41.6

You can find a link to it in the show notes.

1:46.0

And if you can relate, you got to hop on this breathe to heal workshop, this six-week somatic breathwork course

1:54.7

that is being facilitated by fellow shit show member, Teresa, who is a somatic and breathwork practitioner.

2:02.4

If you are relating to this stuck and shame-filled overthinker face of functional freeze,

2:08.3

this is what has helped me to thaw out breathwork, somatic work.

2:13.3

This is at a steal of a price.

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