We put an offer on a house.

I know this is what I want, but then I'm like, oh my gosh, you're freaking out.

It's expensive, it's scary, it's overwhelming.

When our social media blew up originally, I got this amazing high off of it.

But at the same time, that was just a temporary high and there's

things that are so much more important that's your family that's your spouse

that's your friends. I'm a girls girl you know what I mean? Let's be honest though you

value women over men. I as a woman trust other women way more deeply than I trust a random man.

If you want to compete on a show like the voice, just having a good voice isn't good enough.

It sucks not making it on, but at the same time time even if I would have made it on

wouldn't have done much for me as an artist.

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I just want to take a second to admire how incredible of a speaker Abby is because she had this whole event last week okay this whole event for her

She has this partnership with this brand called soap and glory Abby wrote a whole entire speech day of okay day of wrote the whole entire speech

Delivered it did an amazing job. I don't know how you do that like if I have to give a speech or something I'll be nervous you told this whole story of like meeting me in a

show that we did when we were kids and how it was during that time that you first

tried out that brand's product and how you fell in love with the products while you were

falling in love with me and then you ended up marrying me and it was just like man

you just told the most amazing story and the fact that you can write that well and

speak that well I'm blown away. You way overhiving me first of all I took it

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