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Dear Millennial With Megan Tan

What Happens To Your Dreams When You’re Financially Supporting Your Parents?

Dear Millennial With Megan Tan

Megan Tan

Society & Culture, Personal Journals

4.81.4K Ratings

🗓️ 28 November 2024

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Dear Millennial, host Megan Tan chats with a listener who wrote her a powerful email nearly ten years ago. Elyn Kazarian, a creative director in the music industry, shares her journey from a young artist grappling with family upheaval, financial burdens, and career instability, to navigating adulthood with her mother by her side. Together, they explore the challenges of balancing personal dreams with the responsibility of supporting a financially dependent parent, reflecting on what it means to thrive while caring for the people you love. Dear Millennial is an independent production. To support the show subscribe to our Patreon! Just go to: http://Patreon.com/DearMillennial. If you have a question you want to submit, email Megan at [email protected] or call +1 (442) 444-0756‬ and leave a voicemail. Instagram: @meganleetan and the show @millennialpodcast. Dear Millennial is a Tan Lines production. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

That was really good. That was really good. I feel like already in rhythm. Thank you so much for being here. Do you mind reading the email you sent me almost 10 years ago?

0:14.7

Yes, this is so insane that I'm about to read this. Okay. Hi, Megan.

0:21.4

My name is Eileen Kazarian, and I am a 23-year-old Los Angeles native.

0:26.6

I find myself at a really interesting time in my life.

0:30.4

I graduated from Arts Center College of Design in December of 2013 from the illustration department.

0:36.7

And now I'm working in the music industry as a graphic designer and creative director.

0:49.0

When Aline emails me, it's 2015.

0:53.0

Barack Obama is still president.

0:55.1

Bruno Mars, Uptown Funk is number one on the charts.

0:58.7

And Aline is holding her degree from a prestigious art college right outside of Los Angeles.

1:04.1

Her dreams are coming into focus.

1:07.1

She wants to merge her love for music and art.

1:10.0

She wants to be a creative director, helping musicians with their visuals, with their album covers.

1:16.7

But as her career goals are coming into focus, life at home is becoming more blurry.

1:22.1

My parents got divorced after a 20-year marriage, and it was messy.

1:26.4

I was never close with my father growing up,

1:28.5

so I had to navigate through school

1:30.7

and this life-changing experience that was happening with my mom.

1:34.8

My mom and I alone had to sell our large house in Burbank,

1:38.9

repay loans that my father had built up,

1:41.7

and then find a new place to live.

1:44.0

We spent a week living in a hotel, which ended up being difficult to continue that my father had built up, and then find a new place to live.

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