Welcome to the questions from the closet. I'm Ben Shalati and I'm Charlie

Bird each episode we discuss a question were commonly asked as LGBTQ plus Latter-day Saints.

We're not trying to answer this question or comfort consensus, but simply sharing our

perspectives. Today's question is, what if I feel stuck?

Ben and I are not terribly diverse and we share many opinions and life experiences.

For example, we both sleep with pillows at night.

That is true.

However, there are some pretty big differences.

For example, Charlie's bed is covered in decorative pillows.

I think the difference is

actually that like you don't even have pillowcases. Okay no you okay you just

pegs in my bedroom and I'm in the middle of doing laundry so I do have pillowcases. We were on a trip with Ben a couple weeks ago and we like how to

intervention. We're like Ben you are a gay man. Why does your bed look like that?

Well okay so I clearly live at Charlotte's house and it's all just her stuff so I use her pillowcases.

I mean it's a big house that's filled with linens, so I use her pillowcases.

But they're too small for your pillows. That is true. They have king-sized pillows with queen-sized pillow cases.

That is true.

So they're hanging out.

That is a pro- they barely hang out.

They poke out.

But that is true.

But they're really good pillows. They're high quality pillows. I'm sure they are. Yeah, you've never tried them, but I do have two very nice pillows. Yeah, like Ryan and I have like beautiful pillows on our bed. It is kind of a pain to make but once it's made it looks so pretty.

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