We all have this idea of normal, right? And everybody's different, everybody's very different.

I mean, I didn't get to ask you how much a bad comment on social media bothers you.

I get the feeling from you having known you for years that you can rush you off a little

more quickly than I do, but I brush you off a little more quickly than other people

and Joe, it really affects you possibly for days, right? But that's a spectrum, right?

So it's not about mental health issues, not necessarily about going,

there's normal and there's there's a mental health problem. It's certain things are magnified

for you, but those are still relatively quote unquote normal things. And then there are things

that maybe aren't as normal where, and again, quote unquote normal, but like, to me, I'm like,

what you could be feeling angry at yourself or disappointed at yourself because your Zoom

wouldn't connect, that to me is a step further where I go, I can't get my head around that,

but it's still part of the same, it's still part of the same sort of psychological

built. Absolutely. But something that I get a lot is people saying, I mean,

my mental health problems aren't as bad as yours, but, and I don't think that's a thing.

I don't think that it's relative, just because something affects me more than it affects you,

doesn't mean that it's any worse for me. If you're having a hard time or something,

just because I have appeared to you, because I think about killing myself, but you get your

scared to leave your house, that, that means your thing is not worse or better than mine.

We're different people. Yeah. It's still, and suffering from a, from, well, your mental health

is suffering. Yeah, absolutely. You don't even necessarily have to have a disorder for your

mental health to suffer, I guess. 100%. Absolutely, especially with, you know, the, the year

that we've all gone through, that there, there's no book on how we're meant to be dealing with what

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