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www Muslim Central.com forward slash donate. What used to be arrogance can now be called

self-care. What used to be bad-ass-lach can now be called drawing a boundary.

What used to, you know, what used to be telling, you know, somebody's

telling you a harsh truth. What the Wasser Bilhukhukhukhukhukhukhukh. Meaning you're telling somebody a truth that maybe they don't

want to hear, but you need but they need to hear it.

You say, this is gas lighting.

I'm being gas lit.

So now what we do is we take psychology

and we actually undermine some of the most important

experiences in our lives because the biggest the ultimate thing is I need to

feel good. Anything that gets in the way of me feeling good is bad for my psychology.

I'm going to be bad for my psychology.

But I wanted to turn this conversation briefly towards something else. I wanted to turn it

towards a new science that took hold of the world in the last 100 to 150 years and that's the science of psychology.

Before psychology when a human being experienced difficulty emotionally,

they went through a tough experience,

or they wanted to overcome their sadness and their grief, for example,

right?

They would turn towards religion before psychology or they would turn towards philosophy

because philosophy asked a question what is pain why is there suffering in the world

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