What you're saying is I have no problem with you independently liking to do something

you liken this something or you having an interest outside of mind.

You're not going to force me but do something that I don't enjoy.

Unless of course you're asking me for a favor.

The non-negotiable is just equal respect.

I guess you could put that category of equal respect I don't mind that you

watch it but you're not gonna make me watch it she's ultimately not going to make

the sacrifices and the compromises that need to be made to make the marriage work so the marriage is not going to work.

So then that leaves you as the man that you have to make those compromises and now you don't you are not who you are you don't do the things that you do you can't be honest about what you want to do you're running and you're hiding behind the couch because every time she gets angry

he doesn't respect you more for it in fact fact, he expects you more, but standing up and saying,

this is who I am as a person,

and who I am as a person matters.

If you can't deal with who I am in a real sense,

in a real place, we don't we could just not be together.

I'm not an alpha male I'm not a beta male either I'm just a better man better man

I was explaining this to somebody the other day.

I tell the truth as much as I possibly can.

I'm always like one of the things about this is that I admit that I'm flawed but you're not

going to help me going, you know that pimp shit y'all I'm saying, these bitts is bah baby.

Because I know I've been got I've been into a situation I mean let's be honest my

son is in England some and I didn't see that coming but but I also didn't have a lot of information that that I could have

could have figured out that I knew I can like in retrospect as I

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