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Welcome back to another episode of Betches Brides. I'm your host

Fallon Carter. Today we're doing a bride guide episode. I was going to do a

whole episode. I was going to do a whole episode, literally just talking about holiday

weddings, but then I took my email box and I was like, oh we've got bigger problems

honey. We've got mother-in-law issues, we've got friend issues, we've got

basically everything regarding family dynamics and to be honest that's why I tell some of y'all to elope because

y'all family dramas is just gonna give you a headache. So I'm not telling you to

elope today let's go ahead and have this, but to make sure that you actually get some sleep at night, especially for my people pleasers, my type Airs who always want control.

Having to navigate your family drama is probably step one in your planning process before you even make a budget before you even try and figure out a venue

You and your special person need to have a hard meeting about who is involved in this planning process, whose voices matter, whose money matters.

Yes, all money matters, we know.

But it's really understanding exactly who's allowed in the room.

So step one, because I used to be a mediator in middle school. I was the one who kind of helped people like you want to hear this person's problems, you want to hear that person's problems, and I think that really attributed to my success as a wedding planner because most of my job

Especially when I have parents paying for the wedding and then I have a couple who is like what and they're just at each other's necks and throats and no one's

the parents don't want the first look and then the other people are like but we need to we

want cocktail hour. Trying to find a happy medium is what a lot of wedding planning looks like and it's

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