114: Why You Shouldn't Settle In Love And Relationships With Dené Logan

The Sabrina Zohar Show

Mental Health, Education, Relationships, Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

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🗓️ 20 December 2024

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Dené Logan joins Sabrina in a thought-provoking conversation about what settling is and what it can look like in relationships. They talk about how important it is to understand ourselves as souls when choosing partners. Dené challenges the common belief that being uncoupled is the worst outcome, arguing instead that relationships should add to our lives and not be driven by societal conditioning.

Sabrina and Dené delve into the energies of masculinity and femininity, emphasizing that these are energies, not rigid identities, and that real connection comes from understanding and humanizing one another. Dené stresses that relationships need inspiration, respect, and a shared vision to thrive, and Sabrina adds that we shouldn't expect to change someone into our ideal partner.

They both highlight the need for a community-based approach to relationships, where the pressure to stay partnered is lessened, allowing for a healthier, more balanced connection. Through their insights, Dené and Sabrina encourage listeners to reflect on whether they are truly showing up in their relationships or merely outsourcing our power to make themselves more comfortable.

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0:00.0	Hello, hello, hello, and welcome to another episode of the Sabrina Zohar Show. My name is Sabrina Zohar, and I am your host.
0:08.7	Hi, babes. Welcome to the end of the year. I can't believe it. I'm so excited because today we have a very special guest. We have Ms. Denae Logan. I'm obsessed with her. She is a marriage and family therapist. She's a couple's therapist. But she's fucking amazing. And today we talk about why settling is not very good. The problem with settling and why comfortable love just isn't enough. And we start talking about the masculine feminine and like what that actually means. Not the clickbait bullshit of feminine means this and masculine means this. Like we're cutting all that noise. And so I'm
0:38.6	excited. Guys, as always, thank you. Thank you so much for everyone who writes and reviews the show.
0:42.9	Means the world, please. If you think it's worth five stars, please leave it. Leave a review. You can
0:46.4	leave a comment. Let us know what you think. You could DM me if it's going to be something
0:49.4	negative and you don't want to leave it publicly. I'm always open, but please, guys, just remember, use kindness in the words that we use because we are creating a community, and that's what we're here for.
0:57.2	Guys, if you need anything, as always, link in show notes, it has everything you could possibly need.
1:01.4	Free guides, free guides, there are the three courses that are all out right now.
1:06.0	Nervous system, breakup, foundation, you can work one-on-one, ask a question, or just listen to the podcast.
1:11.1	Whatever you guys need is all there.
1:12.8	So, babies, without further ado, let's get right on into it, shall we?
1:30.0	Deney, Welcome to the show.
1:32.7	Sabrina, thank you. I'm so excited.
1:36.3	I am beyond excited, first of all, to have you in studio, because it's always so fun.
1:40.9	Such a gift. I feel like I haven't been down in your neck of the woods in such a long time, and I was just really excited to come and give you a hug in person and this is so much
1:44.9	fun. Thanks for having me. Of course. I'm so excited because today we're going to talk about something I
1:49.9	think is so important that I get every single day of, well, two aspects because you threw a good
1:56.0	whammy my way that we're going to hit on, but two aspects being kind of the settling conversation, right,
2:02.3	like around this settling down, am I settling?
2:05.7	Do I, you know, it's so hard in the dating and even when you're in a relationship, right,
2:09.9	to really be able to assess and really the masculine, feminine, and all those polarities.
2:14.5	So I'm so excited.
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