115. Conversation Tricks from an FBI Negotiation Trainer | Mark Goulston

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Mikhaila Peterson

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🗓️ 21 September 2021

⏱️ 60 minutes

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This episode is sponsored by Super Speciosa Kratom! Go to https://getsuperleaf.com/MP and use code MP for 20% off. I sat down today with Mark Goulston to discuss all things mental health-related. We got into the ins and outs of dealing with depression, his own techniques and tips on how to cope, and the Michelangelo Mindset. Mark Goulston is the Creator/Co-founder of Michelangelo Mindset, exec coach, best-selling author of nine books, and host of My Wakeup Call Podcast. He was originally a UCLA professor of psychiatry for over 25 years, and a former FBI and police hostage negotiation trainer. If you enjoyed this, be sure to subscribe! The Teen Mental Health Webinar - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OqZmDLTFntI Tell My Story - https://www.chooselife.org/film Follow Mark Goulston on Twitter @MarkGoulston: https://twitter.com/MarkGoulston and on his website - https://www.chooselife.org/ ———————————— Follow Me On ———————————— Audio - https://linktr.ee/mikhailapeterson Twitter - https://twitter.com/MikhailaAleksis Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mikhailapeterson Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikhailapetersonpodcast Lion Diet - https://linktr.ee/liondiet Telegram - https://t.me/mikhailapeterson ———————————— Show Notes ———————————— [00:00] Intro [04:58] Surgical empathy [10:33] The Michelangelo Mindset [12:28] Mikhaila’s experience with depression and suicidal thoughts. [14:22] Teen mental health webinar and the Tell My Story documentary about youth mental health and suicide prevention. [19:05] The steps of the Michelangelo Mindset [22:14] What to do if your start-up pitch flops [27:09] What you want to create in a conversation with other people. [28:00] Steve Jobs Xerox story [31:32] What you can do to get that type of reaction [32:09] Creating bestselling book titles [34:45] Wisdom on never getting taken advantage of and Mark's experience with the OJ Simpson trial. [47:46] A tactic against bullies [46:00] Mark’s own story of depression [56:35] Mark’s interview with Jordan B. Peterson #MikhailaPeterson #MarkGoulston #Suicide #Depression #MentalHealth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	So because I was sleep deprived, I blurted out something that normally I wouldn't.
0:05.0	I said, Nancy, I didn't know it was so bad.
0:09.0	And I can't help you kill yourself.
0:13.0	But if you do,
0:16.0	I will still think well of you.
0:20.0	I will miss you.
0:23.0	And maybe I'll understand why you had to,
0:26.0	to get out of the pain.
0:29.0	And that was the first time she looked at me, Michaela.
0:33.0	And she, when she looked at me, she grabbed onto my eyes,
0:36.0	like I'm grabbing onto yours.
0:38.0	And I thought she was going to tell me,
0:41.0	thank you for understanding.
0:43.0	I'm overdue.
0:44.0	So I was a little nervous because this is the first time she made eye contact.
0:47.0	And I said,
0:48.0	well, what are you thinking, Nancy?
0:51.0	And then she leaned into me.
0:53.0	And she said,
0:54.0	if you can really understand why I might have to kill myself to get out of the pain.
0:59.0	Maybe I won't need to.
1:04.0	Welcome to the Michaela Peterson podcast episode 115.
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